Hello, the story I want to share is about a man named Jiuguang who has a hard time bowing to his family. But one day, he suddenly knelt down to his mother and cried like a child. This made the originally balanced scales in his mother's heart tilt more towards him in an instant.
Mom, I will definitely be more careful not to bully Jing'an in the future, if she doesn't have other men outside, I can't do anything to her. In the future, I will treat her wholeheartedly, and we will all work together to make money. Jiuguang said sincerely to his mother.
On the other side, Jing An scoffed when she heard these words, "Jiuguang, I didn't expect you to be this kind of person in your bones, you deliberately ran over and pretended to be kind and innocent in front of my mother, and refused to admit the mess you did outside." ”
Jing'an, please forgive me, even if it's for Dong'er, this child is clean and innocent-" Jiuguang defended himself again, hoping to get Jing'an's forgiveness.
In the face of such a sincere plea, Jing'an just responded coldly, "The child is innocent, and I am also innocent." While you are using me, you are cruelly whipping me and insulting me every day. How stupid did I have to be to decide to spend the rest of my life with you? Stop acting in front of my mom. ”
Looking at the pair of enemies, Jiuguang decided to do it again, "I really care about you, I attach great importance to you." I love you so much, and I ask you to go home at once, live a good life with me, and please don't lose your temper again. ”
However, Jing'an fought back mercilessly, "Are you asking me if I care about you?" Are you telling me you love me? How can you say such hypocritical words? Are you using violence to express your so-called love? ”
Actually, if it weren't for the mention of divorce, Jing'an would probably never have known that Jiuguang had such a bad side in addition to violence. He reversed right and wrong, was extremely shameless, and maliciously slandered Jing'an, which was really unimaginable.
At that time in 1995, most people held the concept of "persuasion and not persuasion", believing that as long as it was for the sake of children, husband and wife should try to maintain family harmony with each other. Therefore, when she saw Jiuguang promise never to fight Jing'an again, Jing'an's mother suddenly felt in a dilemma.
So Jiuguang encouraged his mother to persuade Jing'an again: "Mom, can you help persuade Jing'an to go home and continue to live?" Those men outside are just greedy for fun, and they don't take Jing'an's feelings seriously. I promise that I will never dislike her, but will be doubly nice to her. Mom, please help me persuade Jing'an to return to the family for the sake of our common child Dong'er. ”
In the face of this endless entanglement, Jing'an's mother is really difficult to decide. She is afraid of being blamed by the society after opposing it, and she is even more afraid that her son will be sued in court for beating his wife. She didn't fully believe the promise in Jiuguang's mouth, and only reluctantly agreed to let the two of them handle the matter on their own. But she thought in her heart that if her daughter really hooked up with other men outside, the fault would still be blamed on her daughter after all. "After being beaten by a man, what else is there to be wronged", in her mother's era, her concept was so simple and simple.
After hearing her mother say this, Jing'an strengthened her determination to divorce, she knew that her family could not help her too much in this matter, whether it was marriage in the past, divorce now, or the future road, after all, she still needs to take care of herself. Although this person may be a motherly mother, there are only a few steps that can really help you. Whichever path we choose, we have to move forward one step at a time on our own, don't we?