The end of the year is a time to look back on the past and look forward to the future. Many people are in a hurry to make money and work, but sometimes they fall into one pit after another.
At the end of this year, there is no sadness and no joy, so let's give ourselves a holiday.
This year, this decade, we are all in a hurry to make money, to work, to jump from one pit to another.
However, it's time to pause, take stock of the past, think about the future, and this time there can be no more rush.
I'm sure a lot of people are just like me, desperate for success and eager for rewards.
In 2021, I joined a company and thought I would be able to sign a formal contract, pass the HR interview, and everything seemed to be going well.
However, a month after I came to the company to report for duty, I was suddenly told that my superiors did not approve of me, and the mood at that time can be described as blood coagulation.
In retrospect, I reluctantly signed a dispatch contract.
There are often pies, but opportunities are not always there.
Before waiting for the regularization, this year the company began to lay off employees in a no-brainer way, starting with dispatched employees.
According to laws and regulations, dispatched employees are not allowed to work in critical positions, and they have been in a passive state.
Bad people are always so bad, and what you don't want to happen often ends up happening.
Rather than actually laying off employees, the company forced employees to leave by switching them to subcontracts or lower-paying positions.
Strangely, when I learned the news, I did not feel sad or rejoicing, but fell asleep in bed.
Everyone lives in what they think is a major event, some sigh, some sing, some pretend to be grandchildren, some play the grandfather, the grandson is also the grandfather, and the grandfather is also the grandson.
People go around and around in their scripts, fighting for something, defending something, running around, sweating like rain, and even bleeding.
Some people like to say it's fate after something unsatisfactory, but I prefer to believe that it's a possibility of choice.
Just like fishing, you can only catch a fish if you bait, the fish will not fly to your table inexplicably, even if your table happens to be on the sea, the sea is your choice.
You choose a possibility, and it becomes your destiny.
Pie-in-the-sky happens, and you need to buy at least one ticket to win the jackpot.
This is the possibility of choice, and the circle of fate.
Someone asked me what else I could do if I stopped working on a construction site.
In the face of uncertainty about the future, the only thing we need to determine is what we want.
You know, "you can't have both fish and bear's paws". You have to make a trade-off, and if you don't understand it, keep thinking, and only you know the answer.
What you are doing now, you will be in the future.
As long as you create possibility, there is one less impossible in your life.
Benjamin Franklin said in the Almanac of Poor Richard, "There is no shame in being poor, but it is shameful that you think it is shameful to be poor." ”
This tells us that poverty does not have to be seen as stigmatized.
We must not let the outside world define our own values, we must learn to live according to our own ideas and expectations.
At the end of the year, there is no sadness, no joy, just give yourself a vacation, summarize the past, and think about the future.
Calmly face work and life, and choose the path that suits you, whether you continue to stand still or embark on a new journey.
The important thing is to stick to your choices and believe in your own possibilities.
The end of the year is a time to look back on the past and look forward to the future.
People are often in a hurry to make money, work, but sometimes fall into one pit after another.
We need to learn not to be defined by the outside world, to live according to our own expectations, to stick to our own choices, and to believe in our own possibilities.
At the end of the year, let's relax, take stock of the past, think about the future, and take a vacation for ourselves.