Jackie Chan welcomes the New Year
Why do many people still mix badly after middle age? These kinds of people are actually children.
Their typical performance is that they are easy to rush everything they do, and they do not have process thinking, hard work thinking, and long-term thinking.
Their psyche is in a hurry on the surface, but the inner nature is empty, numb, and even unconscious. The only place to be aware may be to feel anxious, fearful, and helpless.
You will find that this type of person, as a rule, will be somewhat learned helpless laziness. In fact, the real reason is that there is too little attention and tolerance in childhood, lack of love, lack of care, no real psychological development, in essence, it is still a kind of children's thinking, that is, parents and teachers want to give me tasks, rewards and even spurs, but there is no independent thinking, undertaking organizational activities, project management, cost thinking, business thinking, dozens of years old people are still thinking about the leader's mind, colleagues gossip with money, never thought about project thinking, successful mental model, never think that they can do it, You can also be a leader, you can also organize and plan, you are always passively arranged, organized, led, rewarded, scolded and comforted, and finally you are exhausted and lie down and become a lazy person. It's a mediocre member in everyone's eyes.
The reason why he is lazy and doesn't want to work hard is because he is confused and helpless in his heart, he doesn't know what to work for, he feels that his efforts are useless, and his essence is still not recognizing himself and feeling inferior. That's the kind of logic at the bottom of the mind.
In fact, it is possible for people to transcend this underlying thinking logic.
It's just that there is a lack of a motivation point and an opportunity to restart life growth.
In fact, once this kind of person wakes up and realizes it, he can completely solve the root cause of his inferiority, helplessness, and lack of love, and help him clarify his life goals, not only with difficulties and ups and downs, but also with a bright side.