Someone said, "Why is my life so bitter?" And other people's lives, but so good? "The fate of human beings, predestined, determines our life and death, and at the same time carries the idea of the cycle of cause and effect. It's all so sensual, so mysterious. Life and death, cause and effect, this is not something we can change, we must learn to accept it calmly. Life is full of variables, and the fate between life and death is also difficult. However, we are not without walls. As long as we work bravely, we will be able to influence destiny and make it better and better. Don't give up on yourself, stay the course! Life is determined by heaven, fortune is in one's own hands, and changing one's fortune is to change one's own destiny. If you want to be happy, don't be one of these four people. Because usually, these four types of human lives are the most miserable! I hope you can cherish every minute and every second, make the right choice, and move towards a better future. 
1. Amorous people should not be sentimental, because this will only hurt their hearts. But I can't complain about others, I can only blame myself for being too emotional. However, when love comes, who can restrain it? I only hope that when we give our feelings, we can cherish ourselves and each other more. Acting self-inflicted on yourself will only hurt yourself. Heartless people only hurt others, while you are emotionally haunted by yourself. You overestimate your status in the hearts of others, but you are insignificant in the minds of others. Don't let yourself get caught up in this tangled emotion, a better option is to let go and find your own path. People who are full of emotions often experience the most difficult fate. They are always constantly giving and even pleasing each other. They wronged themselves and let go of their dignity, only to get the results they deserved. They are willing to give for their loved ones, but they are taken for granted. The same effort is only exchanged for greater damage. But even so, they are still willing to endure it, because as long as their loved ones are happy, all their efforts and grievances are worth it. From ancient times to the present, amorous affection has always been accompanied by endless pain, and this pain is like a shadow. However, amorous people should not blame the object of their love for resentment, but should reflect on themselves because they are too naïve and naïve. Even though sorrow is pouring in, only self-reflection can truly understand the meaning of true love. 
2. Once the obsession of an overly persistent person penetrates into the bottom of his heart, a thousand kinds of pain come to his heart. People who are too obsessed have the most bumpy fate. Always unwilling, always reluctant, always unable to let go, always forced, always entangled, and finally trapped himself tired, physically and mentally exhausted. This kind of attachment, being responsible for oneself, also causes trouble for others. Only by letting go can we be liberated and our mood cleansed. Life is like a dream, you should not be too persistent, you must know how to let go, and you must learn to forget. Only release can lead to liberation, and only forgetting can lead to freedom. Let's break free and live our true selves. When we let go of all our attachments and burdens, we will become extremely comfortable. As long as you are willing to let go, you can free yourself. We are passers-by who stay in this world for a short time, so why should we indulge in certain things in life. The arrangement of fate has its own reason, and there is no need to reluctantly pursue it. Let the heart be open, let the feelings be indifferent, let the past pass, let it leave if it should leave, let it disperse when it should be scattered, and let it go if it should go. Everything obeys the pace of nature, obeys the arrangement of fate, only for the ease of spiritual memory, only for the freedom of life. 
3. The sorrow in the life of people who like to compare often stems from comparison, and those who pursue illusory material and honor end up with a bad fate. They are constantly observing, comparing, living in the eyes of others, but far from their own hearts. This kind of life is exhausting and painful. We should learn to let go of the heart of comparison and find a way of life that truly belongs to us, so that we can live more freely and easily. We are always busy comparing ourselves to others, today is this, tomorrow is that. But this comparison only makes us lose and anxious, lose ourselves. We should slow down, calm down, discover what is unique about us, and enjoy life, so that we can truly win life and win ourselves. In life, there is no need to compare with others, because as long as you compare, someone must live better than you, and you will envy him, even jealous of him, and even hate him. Time is so precious that we can't afford to waste it. I hope that we can live the life we want, go our own way, live the life we want, and enjoy the rest of our lives with great freedom according to our own preferences. At all times, remember that our time is hard-won and cherish every moment. 
4. Narrow-minded people will always have many unsatisfactory things on the road of life, and there will be many people in life that you are not used to. If you are not open-minded and open-minded enough, then these trivial disappointments will make you depressed and disoriented, and those who make you unaccustomed will also affect your mood and mentality. We should always remind ourselves to have the courage and firm faith to face these challenges and problems, so that our hearts can be stronger and meet more challenges in life. In order not to get entangled, don't be too nervous. We must keep an open mind and accommodate more people and things in order to live happily. Only by being relaxed and accepting the differences around you can you better handle your relationships and challenges. If a person is narrow-minded and can't get used to everything, life will be troubled, and the more he lives, the more tired and miserable he becomes. Let the mind be open and accommodate everything in front of you, so that life can get more beauty and happiness. The mind is small, and the seemingly small things become huge, can such a mood have a good life? As the mind expands, the heavy problems become less important, and only with such a mindset can we live a better life. Be a man with an open mind, so that you can have a good attitude. 
The most miserable people are often these four kinds of people: amorous people, people who are too persistent, people who like to compare, and people who are narrow-minded. Let's not be sentimental, not too persistent, and don't compare ourselves with others. self-inflicted affection will only hurt your own heart; If you are too persistent, you will lose yourself and affect the interpersonal relationships around you. If you like to compare, you will only lose your true colors. Therefore, a better way to live is to be truly yourself, not to care about the evaluation of others, and to live with real pride. Let's learn to relax, be an open-minded person, enjoy life, and complete our life journey steadily! May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!