During the Chinese New Year, someone posted a message asking for help:
A relative brings a box of apples at night, and when he opens it, he sees that it is all bad, do I need to tell my relative? How can I say that it is better?
Take a closer look**, it is true that a whole box of apples is rotten, and there is a lot of discussion in the comment area about whether to tell relatives about it, and there is everything to say.
Support to tell relatives to the person said
If you want to say it, send it to him, say that he was cheated, ask him where he bought it, and don't go to that house to buy it in the future. ”
Take a ** and send it to him, saying that you have been deceived and find an unscrupulous businessman. ”
Yes, take a ** and send it over, so that relatives know it. ”
Some people also think it's better not to tell it directly: "It's been too long, so let's talk about it in the group." ”
However, some netizens who support it and don't say it said:
It wasn't necessary, it was just a box of apples, he certainly hadn't noticed. ”
I don't say it, because my relatives would definitely not give it to me if they knew it was a bad fruit, who would deliberately give it to a bad fruit. ”
I'm afraid that I will turn a lot of hands, and she will bring it to my house if someone else gives it. ”
Maybe it's just that you don't know about it and then transfer it, and there are also cases of this.
Some of them really don't know, they were deceived by the merchant, and I received a box yesterday with several rotten ones. ”
Gift boxes generally can't be opened to see, people don't know if it's bad inside, said that others feel uncomfortable, and the specially picked gift box is not a fruit stall to buy retail for you. ”
After reading it, netizens who say it or don't seem to make sense, but there are also other people's comments that are really "heart-piercing".
There are also a lot of relatives who know that the things they send are expiring, and when they mention it, they will deliberately say that it will expire soon, so let them drink it quickly and don't put it away. ”
If this is the case, it is barely understandable, it is better to say that at least it will not waste things, but there are also that kind of relatives who deliberately send things over knowing that they are bad.
I remember that when my family ran wine, my aunt carried bags of apples and pears, all of which were rotten, and I thought she was doing it on purpose, so she couldn't pick bad ones when she bought fruits. ”
It's not a gift box, you can pick fruits, if you choose all the bad ones, it's really intentional.
A friend of mine from my mother's illness came to visit and brought a bag of apples, each of which was a little bad on it, and I didn't know if the fruit was cheap or how, so I just brought it.
Didn't she see it herself? Definitely shouldn't, there's no outer packaging, or it's just that I can't finish eating at home.
This kind of feeling is very bad, and it always feels a little disrespectful when visiting patients.
20 years ago, I went to my aunt's house in Guangzhou, and she picked out rotten apples from a box of apples and gave them to me, and then said that they would take them back to the dormitory to eat, you are a poor person with better resistance, and this humiliation will never be forgotten for a lifetime. ”
What happened to this netizen is really incredible, and my aunt's words are suffocating.
It's disgusting. ”
You don't smash her in the face. ”
Thank you, Auntie, rotten apples are better left for people like you. ”
Such relatives are really rare, and they are also divided into people, and some relatives who hate the poor and love the rich will always show their superiority between words when they treat people who are not as good as themselves.
Not only relatives, but also between friends, which reminds me of a friend who blurted out hurtful things in the past.
She called me that day and gave me a bunch of small things she bought, ornaments, ornaments.
I asked, "Where did all this come from, and why did you suddenly send me so many things?" ”
My friend said, "It's useless to keep these at home, I can't use them anymore, so I'll give them to you." ”
At first glance, it seems to make sense, maybe she just thought it was suitable for me and gave it to me, and I was about to say thank you, but who knew that she would say something like this next.
Anyway, if I buy anything that doesn't fit in the future, I can give it to you, and you will bring it back, so you don't have to worry about me. ”
This is to treat my side as "collecting rags", maybe she said this unintentionally, but it sounds harsh.
Therefore, we have to analyze a person's usual behavior and quality and then consider whether to tell her directly, if she does have a "bad heart", then it is the right decision for such relatives not to interact.
What do you think about this? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss!
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