Raising children can be challenging, but I've found that realigning your mindset and making the process of having a baby fun can make the heavy lifting easier and more enjoyable. My "fancy baby-raising" method allows me to do housework, cook and have fun with children at the same time. Every day, I make a regular early childhood education plan, which can not only develop the potential of Qiqi, but also improve my memory and physical fitness. In the morning, I will enjoy ancient poems and children's songs with Qiqi, and in the afternoon, I will do artistic edification. By combining ancient poems with movements, I was able to let Qiqi learn more in the process of playing. For the nursery rhyme part, I will choose the nursery rhyme I used to listen to when I was at work or the finger rhythm exercise I learned through Douyin. And when it comes to art appreciation, I will **many types**, including children**, classical**, and modern**. At the same time, I will also take advantage of my love of dancing and dance with Qiqi, and sometimes even square dance. Through this early education program, I not only cultivated Qiqi's interests and talents, but also made my life full of fun.
Coaxing a baby is an indispensable part of the process of raising children, but it is often a headache for many people. And I have mastered some magic skills to coax the baby, so that the process of raising a child has become easy and enjoyable. For Qiqi to fall asleep, I often use two interesting game methods: "radish squat" and "cabbage squat". I'll be like seven dwarfs, squatting and walking around. Sometimes, I feel a little tired, and I add an element of meditation. When I squat, I imagine myself bathing in the sun, walking in a peaceful forest, surrounded by birds and flowers, enjoying the peace and comfort. The amazing thing is that this not only makes my arms feel less tired, but also makes the child fall asleep quickly. Through this kind of coaxing skills, I can easily cope with the child's crying and make the process of taking care of the child more enjoyable.
In Fancy Baby, I turn every item and everything in the house into an opportunity for early education, so that children can get more learning opportunities in their daily lives. I'll take Qiqi with me to get to know every item in the house and tell her what they do. Although Qiqi is still very young, she has already shown a strong curiosity about the things around her. She would follow my gaze and explore the wonderful world with me. Since I take care of Qiqi by myself and also have to cook, I will try to prepare the ingredients in advance and choose steamed food mainly to save time and energy. When Qiqi is sleeping, I also use this time to relax, chat with friends, enjoy a cup of tea, or read a favorite book. Sometimes, I would put Qiqi in the stroller and explain the process to her while steaming steamed buns, which was like spending a pleasant time with her. Because companionship does not have to be holding a child, a look, a smile, and a touch can all become an expression of love for the child.
Although it is a difficult job to bring a baby, it is necessary for us to set some principles for this to maintain our own health and bottom line. First of all, I reached three agreements with my daughter: I don't take the baby at night, I want to have enough rest to ensure that I have enough sleep time; After cooking, only cook, no more washing dishes; I don't do the cleaning at home every day, but I give this task to the robot vacuum cleaner and use it once a week on Sunday. In addition, I also have to keep track of the routine of Qiqi at all times, so that I can better arrange my time with my children. In short, taking care of children is not only a technical job, but also a job that requires constant exploration. Not only do we have to work hard to take care of our children, but we also have to pay attention to our own health, so that we can kill two birds with one stone.
In the busy and fulfilling process of raising a baby, I gradually found that as long as we readjust our mentality and make the process of raising children fun, we can enjoy the process and turn raising children into a pleasant enjoyment. By creating a regular early childhood education plan, mastering the skills of coaxing, turning daily life into early childhood education opportunities, and setting principles for ourselves, we are better able to cope with the challenges of raising a baby, and make the child's growth process more enjoyable and fulfilling. Taking care of children is not only the love and companionship of children, but also the growth and exercise of oneself. Let's enjoy the process and find happiness and fulfillment in it.