Rewrite the text: A meal with a lot of people is the best thing we should refuse in time after we are fifty years old. Some people believe that inviting a few more people to the table can add to the lively atmosphere and make the meal more meaningful. However, a crowded meal is often accompanied by all kinds of troubles and internal friction. First of all, as the number of people increases, so will the number of people who share the wine, and a toast per person can become a burden; Secondly, there are more people, there will be more noises, and there will always be people complaining about the society and the dinner, which will bring unhappiness to the dinner; Again, the number of show-offs at the dinner will also increase, and it will become a stage for everyone to boast; In the end, some unscrupulous men and women can make the meal a miasma. What's even more worrying is that once something goes wrong after the meal is over, everyone involved in the meal will share the responsibility. Therefore, in the current information age, we should understand that those who can be closely connected have already formed small circles, and those who have a large number of people are often just a group of people who have never met before. A truly solid relationship is an iron triangle of three people, and any more of them can get complicated. Therefore, we should enjoy the quietlife, don't care about the so-called lively, don't listen to any show-off and embarrassing chats, don't worry about getting drunk and having problems, in order to live a relaxed and happy lifelife
Personal thoughts and opinions: A crowded dinner may seem lively, but in fact there are many problems and unpleasant factors. As the number of participants increases, so do the number of people who drink a lot of alcohol at the dinner, and for some people who can't bear it multiple timesToastwill bring a lot of burden. In addition, there will be an increase in the noise of the participants during the dinner, and there will often be people complaining about the society and the dinner, which will make the atmosphere unpleasant. There are also people who like to show off themselves, and everyone is bragging, which is also uncomfortable. And some people who misbehave will also make the whole meal chaotic. The most worrying thing is that if something goes wrong after the dinner is over, everyone involved may be implicated. Therefore, now that society has entered the information age, we have formed a small circle, and these people are already our strongest relationship, and we no longer need to care about a large number of people. We should pursue tranquilitylife, don't bother with the excitement, and enjoy your days quietly.
The text is rewritten: The dinner with the relatives is also something that should be rejected in time after the age of fifty. As the saying goes, "If you have nothing to do, you will go to the Three Treasures Hall." "Most of the time, people go to dinners because there's something going on' – connecting with a customer, looking for potential social connections, or someone asks you to do something and treats you as a customer. It's rare to have a dinner without something. Even if it's a meal organized by the unit, it's either a celebration or a relaxation. If we can't find a clear reason before attending a dinner, we should be very cautious. Because it is possible that others have set a trap for you to feel what it means to "eat people and have a soft mouth". At the dinner, everyone will praise you and make you very happy; There are also many people who will take the initiativeToastTreating you as a VIP is undoubtedly the icing on the cake. However, immediately after the meal, there is a request for your help. They just want to see if you're willing to help. If you don't help, it seems that you can't say anything. This is the so-called "human kidnapping". If you promise to help, you could get into a series of troubles. Because if you help once, someone will ask you to help a second time. Or if you don't help, the other person will get angry and make some reproachful words, saying that you have a short mouth and no conscience. Actually, you put a lot of effort into getting a scolding, and it's really not worth it. If you eat someone else's meal and then refuse their request, that could cause a fight. Some acquaintances will also repeatedly persuade you: "Just help, such a small thing." "In such a scene, the glass you raise is full of bitter water, and you really can't drink it. The most shameful thing is that someone will give you a red envelope at a dinner. If you don't help, they'll pull out their cameras and threaten you to make the documentary public. It's scary. So, it's best not to go to the dinner where you run errands. If you have to participate, you should also be mentally prepared, think of reasons for refusal in advance, and express it decisively at the dinner, so as not to be swayed by their sweet words and intimidation.
Personal reflections and opinions: Dinners with relatives should also be attended with caution. Most of the time, people attend to dinners because they have something to attend to, are looking for potential social connections, or someone asks you to do something for you. It's rare to have a meal without a purpose. Before attending these dinners, we should think more about whether there is a clear reason to go and whether we really need to go. Because there is a chance that someone else will take advantage of this dinner to set a trap and make you have to agree to their request. At the dinner, everyone will circle around you, making you feel flattered; There are also a lot of people who will do it on purposeToastGive you a drink, and hold you high. However, soon after the meal, they will ask for your help. If you say yes, you may end up in a series of troubles. Once you help once, they'll come back to you for help. If you refuse, the other person may get angry and accuse you of not having a conscience. In fact, you just ate their meal, but in exchange for a reproach, it really isn't worth it. Sometimes, even if you refuse their request, they will repeatedly persuade you, "Just help, such a small thing." When you face this kind of scene, the raised wine glass is full of bitter water, and it is really hard to drink. What's even more shameful is that some people will give you red envelopes at dinners, and if you refuse their request, they will threaten to make it public. Such a threat is really frightening. Therefore, we must think carefully before participating in the dinner and prepare mentally in advance. If you have to participate, you should also express your reasons for refusing decisively, and not be affected by their intimidation and sweet words.