Conform to the will of heaven and live indifferently
In the vastness of the universe, human existence is like a speck of dust, insignificant. Despite this, people often try to calculate others and even God for their own selfishness. However, man is not as good as heaven, and how can human beings speculate on the subtlety of heaven's will?
Xiang Yu, a generation of heroes, brave and invincible, finally killed himself in Wujiang and lamented his bad fate. Who did he lose to? It's not Liu Bang, it's providence. In front of heaven and earth, both heroes and civilians seem so small that they can't compete with them.
Therefore, instead of scheming, it is better to conform to the will of heaven and live indifferently. If you can understand the following four points, you can live a clear life.
1. Money, fame and fortune, do your best.
For the pursuit of money, fame and fortune, people often rush to it, even at all costs. However, there are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't have to force it. Money, fame, and fortune are things outside the body, which are not brought in life or taken away in death. Attaching too much importance to these illusory things will only lead to endless pain and trouble.
We should do our best in the face of money, fame and fortune. Work hard, live with your heart, and do your best to pursue the life you want. But at the same time, we must also understand that everything is fixed and cannot be forced. It's good to be able to get it, but you don't have to be too attached to it if you can't get it. Only in this way can we maintain peace of mind and indifference.
Second, longevity geometry, go with the flow.
Life and death are fateful, and wealth is in the sky. The length of a person's lifespan is not within the control of human beings. In order to prolong their lives, many middle-aged and elderly people blindly take various health products and medicines. However, these practices are often counterproductive and can harm health rather than prolong life.
We should face life and death with the attitude of going with the flow. Cherish every day of your life and feel the beauty of life with your heart. Maintain a healthy lifestyle, be physically active, and maintain a happy mood. But at the same time, we must also understand that life and death are fate, and you can't force it. When life comes to an end, we can face it calmly and leave no regrets.
Third, how to succeed or fail, treat it calmly.
In a competitive society, success and failure are common. However, many people's attitudes towards success and failure are too extreme. Ecstatic when you succeed, and discouraged when you fail. This kind of mindset is not only detrimental to one's growth and development, but can also lead to endless pain and trouble.
We should take our successes and failures with a calm attitude. If you succeed, you will not be complacent, and if you fail, you will not be discouraged and depressed. Treat success and failure as an experience in the course of life, learn from them and learn from them, and constantly improve yourself. Only in this way can we maintain inner peace and tenacity and not be shaken by the ups and downs of the outside world.
Fourth, how is fate, no longer paranoid.
Feelings and fate are the most mysterious things in life. Many people will do whatever it takes to pursue so-called love and happiness. However, feelings and fate are not human power. Sometimes, the more we cling to a person or relationship, the less we get. Not only will this cause us to suffer and trouble, but it may also cause us to miss out on more beautiful people and things.
We should no longer be paranoid about feelings and fate. Cherish every encounter and acquaintance in life, and feel the beauty of each other with your heart. But at the same time, we must also understand that feelings and fate need fate and nature. When a relationship comes to an end, we can face it calmly, without entanglement or attachment. I believe that there will be more beautiful people and things waiting for us to meet and cherish in the future.