It's another winter vacation season, are the interest classes for their children arranged by parents in place?
I had heard of learning to draw, dance, and musical instruments, and it was the first time I heard of the "Children's Etiquette Class". Seriously, when I heard this kind of interest class, I was directly confused. However, there are many parents who are particularly respected, spend the highest **, and send their babies to learn etiquette. What do you think about this?
Is it really necessary to have a children's etiquette lesson?
How so? Children's etiquette is very necessary, and as for the "lesson", forget it.
The reason why such an interest class is given to the baby is that parents realize the importance of etiquette and want their children to accept systematic learning and become more polite people.
It is undeniable that children who speak etiquette are indeed very likable in real life. They are polite, have good personalities, and have a cultivated ......As if, there are no drawbacks.
But these things, obviously parents can educate well, why should they shirk the responsibility to others? Etiquette class is really a waste of money.
In class, the teacher does teach a lot of content; But what about after class? Do teachers keep an eye on their children? No matter how well you perform in class, you may not be able to stick to it after class.
Therefore, there is really no need to go to a children's etiquette class. For parents, it may be that they have bought a peace of mind, thinking that the teacher has a better education.
As everyone knows, compared with the etiquette teacher, many habits have to be educated by parents. After all, the people who spend the most time with their children are parents, who are always aware of their shortcomings and guide them to correct them.
These etiquettes require the guidance of parents throughout the process
1. Greeting etiquette
From the moment children begin to babble, parents should begin to teach them greeting etiquette, teach them how to greet those around them, and how to address others.
Greeting etiquette is the etiquette that children should master at the earliest. After all, from the age of one or two, they need to deal with people, and words like "hello" and "goodbye" need to be learned early on.
2. Table manners
From the beginning of eating, the necessary table manners need to be taught to children. It is said that eating is a matter of character, and how well children learn table manners is really important.
Starting from how to use the tableware correctly, the next thing is to not flip at will when eating, not to make a sound and other simple polite knowledge, please be sure to let the baby learn.
3. Social etiquette
Many people think that social etiquette refers to how you get along with others. But in fact, socializing includes many aspects, and appearing in public is also a kind of socialization.
Don't say anything else, be quiet in public places, don't make noises, don't make weird noises. When getting along with others, don't interrupt them at will, and don't affect their emotions.
4. Guest etiquette
As the child becomes sensible, it is necessary to hand over the guest etiquette to them. Whether you are visiting relatives or friends, it is inevitable that you will take your children to other people's homes as guests, so you must be polite.
In other people's homes, you should respect the living habits and feelings of the owner, and do not destroy and rummage through other people's belongings at will. In addition, do not enter or leave the living room without the permission of the owner.
5. Dress etiquette
Everyone must be strange, do you need etiquette to dress? The answer is yes. Unless, you don't have contact with other people, and you stay in your own small room all the time, then it's okay to be casual.
But if you want to get along with people, you have to dress appropriately and don't make others feel embarrassed. When you go out, you must pay attention to personal hygiene, which is the minimum courtesy.
6. Punctuality and etiquette
On the road to growth in the future, punctuality and covenant keeping is also a special etiquette that needs to be paid attention to, and no one likes people who are not punctual. The agreed time, but it did not appear in time, in the eyes of outsiders, it is a character problem.
Therefore, when children are very young, it is necessary to guide them to develop the habit of not being late and not leaving early. At the same time, learn to schedule your time and keep your promises.
Parents also need to pay attention to the following points when guiding their children to learn etiquette:
First of all: don't overemphasize the form of etiquette and ignore the child's inner feelings.
The purpose of learning etiquette is to make children polite and respectful of others, rather than pursuing a superficial sense of formality. Etiquette is to make children excellent, not to be shown to others.
Secondly: Parents should have enough patience and perseverance and not give up halfway.
Learning etiquette is a long and boring thing, repeating the same thing day after day. Therefore, parents should be patient, stay with their children, and encourage them to practice and persevere.
Finally, it is necessary to choose the appropriate etiquette content according to the child's age and cognitive level.
I understand the idea that parents want their children to become excellent, but the problem is that learning etiquette should not be rushed, and it should be combined with the child's age. As their cognitive level improves, the difficulty of learning etiquette gradually increases.
Instead of spending money on "children's etiquette lessons", it is better to find some relevant etiquette**, and parents accompany and urge their children to complete it at home. Not to mention, parents can find out the problem in time, which is more helpful for children to develop good etiquette habits.