In today's society, the importance of human relationships cannot be overstated. However, we often find that many relationships involve the exchange of interests, whether it be money, power, or other resources.
Friendships built through disinterest-free interactions are purer, sincere, deeper, and more durable.
Because there is no purpose, it is more likely to gain trust and help; Because there is no pressure, it is more relaxed and free.
So, is there a human relationship that does not carry interests?
The answer is yes, and here's why.
First of all, human relations without interest are more pure. In interpersonal relationships involving interests, people often ignore each other's true emotions and values because of interests, and this relationship is easy to break down due to changes in interests. Interpersonal relationships without interests pay more attention to emotional exchanges and collisions of ideas, which are more real and pure.
Secondly, interpersonal relationships without interest are more stable. In interpersonal relationships involving interests, people often have contradictions and conflicts because of the uneven distribution of interests, and once this contradiction intensifies, it is easy to lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Relationships without interests do not have the problem of distribution of interests, so they are more stable and can stand the test of time.
Thirdly, relationships without interest are more beneficial to personal growth. In interpersonal relationships involving interests, people tend to do things that violate their values because of interests, which can easily lead to the reduction of moral bottom line and the stagnation of personal growth. Interpersonal relationships without interests pay more attention to personal growth and self-improvement, which can help people better understand themselves and improve their self-cultivation and quality.
In addition, interpersonal relationships without interests are more comfortable and down-to-earth. People do not owe each other, they can get along with each other with peace of mind, and they will not be anxious about receiving the same gift from each other, or they will not feel comfortable receiving too much help from one party, and they will be bent on what to make up for and repay. If one party owes too much, it will cause a lot of pressure on the other party, unable to communicate normally, so that the friendship gradually fades, this unequal relationship is not conducive to the establishment of deep feelings, on the contrary, not accepting the gift of benefits makes people more at ease and more comfortable.
In addition, interpersonal relationships without interests save time and improve one's own quality. If a person's heart is pure, and the mind thinks about how to become true friends, communicate with each other, treat each other as equals, learn from each other, and encourage each other, then they will spend more time on knowledge, research academics, reading together, and making progress together, so as to improve their personal abilities and do more meaningful things, instead of spending their minds on treats, gifts, eating, drinking, and having fun.
Finally, relationships without interest are more socially valuable. In interpersonal relationships involving interests, people tend to do things that are unfavorable to society because of the drive of interests, and this behavior can easily lead to social instability. Interpersonal relationships without interests pay more attention to social values and public interests, and such relationships can promote social harmony and progress.
To sum up, we say that the best interpersonal relationship is the interaction without interests, which is more suitable for the harmonious communication and development between people in modern society, therefore, we should strive to pursue and maintain this kind of interpersonal relationship, so as to make our life more beautiful, fulfilling and meaningful.
In addition to the mixing of interests, people become simpler, more transparent and pure, so as to increase mutual goodwill and establish a strong relationship.
The relationship maintained with monetary interests will not last long, open and close your mouth to talk about money, you will inevitably take money too seriously, and it will become a copper smell when you pull money, once you lose the bond of money one day, the boat of friendship will overturn, and the original shape will appear immediately, and the relationship will immediately break down, and this fragile relationship will not withstand the test of money.
Interests will lead to people's thoughts, corrupt people's hearts, and all negative energy things will scandalize people's conduct, make morality corrupt, and lack human nature, so we must stay away and reduce contradictions and disputes.
Friendship is based on honesty, without asking for anything in return, without caring about personal gains and losses, not on profiting and demanding from the other person. Also, friendship is when both parties have common interests and correct values, which can bring people closer together and make the relationship closer.
The relationship between people is a tacit understanding of the same heart, regardless of the high and low, regardless of the conflict of interest, and always shines with the innocence of gold. That's why I say that the best relationships are those that don't carry interest.