When she first arrived at her girlfriend s house in Nepal, her mother had her passport detained, so

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-15

In a small mountain village in Shenyang in the northeast, there lives Xiao Jiang, a single man in his thirties. One day, when he was playing with his phone, he suddenly received a friend request from a beautiful woman. However, the messages sent by the beauty were all in English, and Xiao Jiang couldn't understand a word. So, he had to use translation software to communicate, and in desperation, the two started chatting. After getting to know each other, Xiao Jiang learned that this beauty was called Ayusha and was a girl from Nepal. Although the language is different, after the two communicated for half a year, Xiao Jiang decided to go to Nepal to meet the beautiful Ayusha in person.

Xiao Jiang's decision made Ayusha and her father happy, and on the day they met them at the airport, they drove for a long time to reach Ayusha's home in rural Nepal. Ayusha's mother asked to see Xiao Jiang's passport and ID card, but did not return it to Xiao Jiang after taking it. Why is this so?

The seemingly helpless passport detention is actually out of the protection of the daughter and the family's reputation. Ayusha's family has a high status in rural Nepal, and the detention of Xiao Jiang's passport is to ensure that Xiao Jiang will not embarrass the family during his time in Nepal, and it is also a kind of restraint. For Xiao Jiang, who has always been single, it is a godsend to have Ayusha's love, and he has no idea of running away, let alone making any adverse moves to the family's reputation.

Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, it is March 10, 2021, and Ayusha and Xiao Jiang have known each other for more than half a year. And on this day, which happens to be Nepal's Promise Day, Ayusha made a promise to Xiao Jiang: "I will always be with you in your sorrow and joy, love you forever, and never leave." This promise deeply touched Xiao Jiang's heart and made him even more determined to go to Nepal.

Xiao Jiang pays attention to the news of going abroad every day, and whether there will be information on the switch. Over time, Nepal's border crossings have gradually opened, but not all. Xiao Jiang traveled to Shenzhen and bought a ticket to Nepal. At the time of crossing the border, Xiao Jiang told the border officers that he was going to Nepal for work, not tourism or business, and that his purpose was to reunite with his beloved Ayusha. In the end, Xiao Jiang successfully boarded the plane and immediately sent a notice to Ayusha.

After Ayusha received Xiao Jiang's news, she immediately held a family meeting. At the meeting, Ayusha's grandparents said that they would marry Xiao Jiang once he arrived. And Ayusha's parents also very much agree with this decision. After the meeting, Ayusha and her father set off for Kathmandu, where they planned to meet Xiao Jiang. During the journey in the car, Ayusha began to have some doubts in her heart, she was worried about whether Xiao Jiang was too old and whether her height was not enough. After all, she herself has reached a height of 165cm, and if the height difference is too great, the two of them walking together will cause others to talk about it. She felt a little uneasy and apprehensive in her heart.

After a five-hour flight, Ginger finally arrived at Kathmandu Airport. However, Ayusha and her father have not yet arrived. Xiao Jiang waited patiently for two hours before finally meeting Ayusha in reality. Xiao Jiang is 173cm tall and doesn't look old, and the two immediately hugged each other, completely ignoring Ayusha's father behind him. Afterwards, Xiao Jiang and Ayusha walked to their father together, shook hands and greeted each other. Xiao Jiang said that he wanted to buy clothes for Ayusha and her father, and gave Ayusha the wallet, hoping that she could help arrange the purchase. However, Ayusha offered to buy it cheaper in her town, so the two of them took a ride to the town together. During the bumpy hours of driving, Xiao Jiang bought gifts from the family, which brought a real surprise to the meeting.

When Xiao Jiang and Ayusha returned home, they were warmly welcomed by neighbors and relatives. In fact, during the relationship between Xiao Jiang and Ayusha, the surrounding relatives and neighbors had already known about it. After dinner, Ayusha's mother asks to see Ginger's passport, and Ginger hands it to her and asks her to show it, but she doesn't return it to Ginger after taking it. Why didn't she return it?

It is not difficult to understand that Ayusha's mother withheld Xiao Jiang's passport to protect her family's reputation. If Xiao Jiang leaves before the marriage ceremony is completed, it will bring a bad reputation to Ayusha's family and will be discussed and criticized by people. The Ayusha family enjoyed an upper-middle status and prestige in the local area, they were well-known in the village, and the family had a Chinese son-in-law who was also the first foreigner in the village. Therefore, Ayusha's mother kept Xiao Jiang's passport to ensure that Xiao Jiang would not leave in order to maintain the dignity and status of the family.

For Xiao Jiang, he is 30 years old and has never found a wife, so he is very eager to get married. Now there is such a beautiful woman who loves him, and he has never thought of running away or leaving. He doesn't care about material conditions such as bride price and garage, he just wants to marry Ayusha sincerely and live together.

After two months, they held a marriage ceremony at a local temple. Marriage ceremonies in Nepal have unique and beautiful traditional customs. During the ceremony, the groom and bride will wear garlands on each other, and in front of the groom, the bride kneels down and bows her head to show loyalty and respect to the groom. The groom then picks up the bride and kisses him. It's a way of showing love and commitment.

A year later, they welcomed their first child, who was loved by the whole family. Xiao Jiang and Ayusha cherish their love and family very much, they work hard to manage their own lives, and support and care for each other. The crystallization of their love became the most important part of their lives, and they spent many wonderful times together.

They follow each other's cultural traditions, and the Chinese and Nepalese families accept and respect each other. Xiao Jiang also studied Nepali in Nepal and gradually integrated into Nepali society. Despite their linguistic and cultural differences, through love and hard work, they overcame these obstacles and built a happy marriage. Their stories have also become role models and inspirations for those around them, making people believe in the power of love, transcending geographical limitations.

Their stories tell us that love knows no borders, and as long as you truly love each other, you can overcome all difficulties and obstacles. They have proved with their own experiences that love is the most beautiful and powerful force. Their stories also inspire more people to pursue love bravely, not to be swayed by the doubts and difficulties of the outside world, and to believe in their own choices and decisions.

Their stories also teach us that respect and understanding are very important factors in marriage. In an intercultural marriage, both parties need to respect and accept each other's culture and traditions, and understand and tolerate each other. Only through mutual efforts and understanding can a harmonious and happy family be built.

Their stories inspire people to pursue happiness and true love, and they also teach people to respect and understand each other in marriage, and to build a family that supports and cares for each other. Their story has become a legend of love in a small mountain village in Nepal, and has brought hope and courage to many more people.

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