Many people have pain because they have obsessions. There are also people who have achieved temporary success because of their obsession. In reality, in fact, all obsessions only bring pain to people.
Obsession, as the name suggests, is stubborn thoughts, stubborn thoughts. To be stubborn is not to change and to stick to one's own. It's a commonplace phenomenon that we have been ignoring and never thinking deeply about: Is what I am thinking necessarily right? Do I have to follow this thought all the time?
Some people, because they are obsessed with their own wishes, have been missing their first love and can't cherish and love their wives in front of them, and some people have been obsessed with making a lot of money and then living a good life, and as a result, they have missed more days in their lives. There are also people who are obsessed with achieving their goals, so. Tang Shang, who has been taking the college entrance examination for more than ten years, must be admitted to the University of Science and Technology of China, but the result is still not as expected, but he delayed his youth in vain. There are also children who have gone into a rebellious detour because they are obsessed with what they want.
Once, my daughter fell in love with someone else's something, and I didn't agree, and she insisted on stubbornly saying to me: I want it! At first I persuaded her that it was someone else's. She didn't listen. Later I thought, no, she's already at a dead end, and it's useless to reason. She thinks she's right. So, I said to her: Why do you think you have to do what you want? Do you have the ability to get what you want? Do you have to get what you want early? Then I want a lot of things! Can I ask for both? The daughter stopped talking.
Many times, let go of an obsession, and life immediately changes a lot. Because life is not necessarily what we think, and what we think is not necessarily right. People who are obsessed with their first love, maybe they find that they are not what they used to be, and the wife in front of you has been ignored by you. A boy who is obsessed with not going to that university can obviously change his mind and enroll early, and his life should be completely different. Obsessed with the recognition that his life should not be so uneven. If you let go of your obsessions, you can start a new life with hope.
Isn't it because we grasp our obsession because we feel that only then can we be happy? But do you think that is necessarily the way you can be happy? It turns out that this is not the case. Let go of obsessions and be at ease.