The best state is to maintain inner peace

"True peace is not to avoid the hustle and bustle of cars and horses, but to cultivate fences and plant chrysanthemums in your heart.

Although the past is still the same, every day is still the same, as long as we get rid of our obsessions, we can be quiet and peaceful.

May everyone not get lost in the midst of the world, and may sit on the rock, drunk and fall before the flowers."

Lin Huiyin.

We live in this complex world, and looking at the busy streets every day and facing the bustling crowds, it is inevitable that we will have some intersections with other people.

This connection, more or less, disturbs our calm hearts.

In a conversation that is intentional or unintentional, he changes his magnetic field.

One day, we got tired of the hustle and bustle and wanted to find a quiet place.

However, due to various practical reasons, we cannot be separated from the crowd and live forever in a pure place where no one disturbs us.

Although we can't stay away from this real society, we can pursue inner peace.

In the past, when I was talking to someone, I would try my best to refute a point of view that I disagreed with, and when I was misunderstood, I would try to defend myself.

But later, I found out that I said a lot of words, all in vain, and others didn't seem to understand. This feeling of powerlessness makes me feel very uncomfortable.

Yes, people will only think about one thing from their own point of view and with their own thinking. As for what you're saying, no one else listens at all.

Where there are people, there is right and wrong, and if you want to maintain a clean magnetic field, you must talk less and let yourself be less involved in the inconsequential right and wrong.

When we don't argue anymore and don't want to explain, it's really a lot easier.

We live in a variety of different circles, each circle is a different small river, which is mixed with too many people's grievances and grievances.

We are in this small river and lake, as long as we don't interject at will, we don't meddle at will, we can put ourselves in a cool place.

Just let the gossip drift past your ears, it's hard to tell if it's true or false, so don't make any evaluations.

Simplify your circle and deal with people on the same frequency.

Each of us has limited energy, and we don't have too many irrelevant interpersonal relationships.

Whoever is comfortable talking to, then say a few more words.

Whoever you are happy with, then you have more contact.

The relationship between people is actually not as complicated as imagined, and people who don't want to deal with each other should just stay away, why think too much.

When we are far away from right and wrong, and are no longer troubled by these worldly things, our hearts will be much simpler and more peaceful.

I thought that the world of words was a small world that no one disturbed.

The process of writing is to have a dialogue with yourself, to talk to your heart.

In this world, there is no real empathy, only you understand yourself.

If you don't want to talk to anyone in reality, just write what you think.

However, the Internet is also a complex small world, and we may sometimes have to face comments from different points of view and see articles with different opinions.

At first, I tried to justify it in words. But after several rounds of debate, there was no result.

Everyone is sticking to their own ideas, and the battle over words, just like in real life, will only make you angry and add to your annoyance.

Just like this time, a certain star said something at the concert, which sparked heated discussions.

Many people write about this topic, and there are many comments about "regional discrimination" underneath.

I didn't agree with a lot of comments, and I wanted to refute them, but I held back.

Those who comment, saying "people in a certain place are good", "people in a certain place are not good", have their own problems.

Because people who distinguish between right and wrong know that there are good people and bad people, and we will not deny the whole place because of one person or one thing.

So, there's no need to take these meaningless comments to heart and let him go.

Life is very long, we can't avoid the hustle and bustle of this reality, but we can create a perfect little world for our hearts.

Here, you can't hear, you don't want to hear, you see the scenery you want to see.

You are sitting in front of the window in a daze at the moment, looking back on the past, just like in a ** movie, the joys and sorrows have nothing to do with you.

You don't fight or grab, your heart is clear and clean, imagine that the courtyard is full of flowers, you enjoy it very much, this moment, the romance that belongs to you alone.

It's not easy to code words, if my words can resonate with you, then give it a thumbs up and support it [heart].

The world is big, and it's a pleasure to meet you in the world of words.

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