Ma Li has lived in the military camp since she was a child, her father is a general, and her mother is a department-level cadre. There are four sisters, and she is the third. When she was in middle school, she was very tall, and she often liked to wear black dresses, and her male classmates gave her the nickname "Black Swan". She herself has a feeling of "standing out from the crowd".
In 1977, Ma Li put on a grass green military uniform and became an enviable female soldier. After the training, she was assigned to the outpatient department of a military department and became a hygienist.
Five years have passed in a hurry, and she has been promoted from an ordinary soldier to a platoon commander and deputy company commander, and she has also dealt with several boyfriends during this time, but the results are all disappointing. One day, Ma Li was in a prominent position on the first page of a military newspaper and saw a familiar face, it was her child.
Base. Li Tie, the playmate of the year. Now Li Tie is the commander of an artillery company, and he has done a very good job. This discovery made her excited, and she immediately took the initiative to ask the leader to participate in the inspection of the grassroots troops. A week later, she came to Li Tie's company with the medical team. She and Li Tie already have.
I haven't seen each other for seven or eight years. When Li Tie stood in front of her, this handsome and burly man already made her dare not recognize it. Li Tie held her hand and jokingly said, "Little Pony has become a big girl." ”
Since then, Ma Li has been in the company more often, and she loves to run to the artillery company. Soon, Li Tie was promoted to battalion commander, and she often went to the battalion headquarters and brought him something every now and then. Anyone with a discerning eye could see that Ma Li was interested in him, but Li Tie just didn't give back the message she sent. Ma Li couldn't hold her breath anymore, went home during the Spring Festival, and found out to her parents her heart for Li Tie. General Ma and his wife were very supportive when they heard this, and the general took the initiative to kiss Li Tie's father. Li Tie's father was his subordinate, and he naturally approved of this family business.
Ma Li returned to the army after vacation, and Li Tie finally took the initiative to go on a date with her. On May 1, 1983, Ma Li became Li Tie's bride as she wished.
Two. If the sails of life have been fluttering in one direction, Ma Li and Li Tie's marriage may be interpreted into a moving chapter of the wilderness. However, the great waves of social change are hitting every corner of life, and the barracks are no exception. Now that Ma Li is wandering overseas, she still has palpitations when she thinks of her thrilling marriage change.
Soon after Ma Li got married, she was transferred to Dalian with her parents to work, and she and Li Tie lived a separate life. Li Tie is a simple career-oriented husband, when Ma Li gave birth to her son Dongdong, she was catching up with his big drill, she died of pain on the delivery bed, but Li Tie didn't even call to greet him. Although Ma Li was born in the barracks, it is only now that she truly understands the suffering of military families. Ma Li's parents considered that it was difficult for her to raise the child alone, so they always took their grandson with them.
Ma Li's life is very leisurely, and she is a little empty, so empty that she tastes the boredom of marriage. Seeing her colleagues entering and leaving the ballroom and stadium in pairs, she felt both envy and self-pity. At this time, her sister was going to England with her husband, and before leaving, her sister persuaded her: "Sister, you haven't read much before, and now that you are still young and fine, you might as well go and read some books." I suggest you learn some English, and I may be able to help you a little when I go abroad. ”
Ma Li followed her sister's advice and attended English night school. They were taught by a handsome and dashing lecturer named Qi Jun, who was eloquent, and Ma Li felt that listening to his lectures was a kind of enjoyment. Ma Li has a thin foundation in English, and Qi Jun always answers her questions with no tire of asking.
One night after school, Qi Jun dropped off Ma Li home, and they chatted very close as they walked. Qi Jun not only knew that she had a husband who was a soldier, but also knew that she had a retired general's father. Since then, he has accompanied Ma Li home almost every night after school. Finally, on a sultry autumn night, when they walked to the door of a song and dance hall, Qi Jun said to her: "Don't be too tired to live, why don't we go in and relax after such a good night." Ma Li thought that she couldn't sleep early when she went back anyway, so she gladly accepted his invitation.
Ma Li is not very good at dancing, and the whole person is leaning on the crook of Qi Jun's arm. Suddenly, the lights went out, and Ma Li was startled and was about to break free from Qi Jun's arms. Qi Jun's hand strengthened, and he leaned into her ear and whispered: Don't move! It's called'A moment of tenderness', Ma Li I love you, since you came to listen to my class, I have been chasing you with my heart, can't you see it? Qi Jun's words, in this quiet moment, were like the echo of the empty valley, which shook the heart of this ** who had been growing up in an extremely formal and traditional military camp. This kind of soul out of the shell trembling was something Li Tie had never given her. Ma Li betrayed her husband completely voluntarily.
Three. When Ma Li and Qi Jun were like glue, Li Tie went back to Dalian for vacation, and Ma Li was annoyed and a little scared. On the first night Li Tie came back, she quarreled with him and then slept in the study. The next day, Dongdong was naughty, Li Tie vented his anger on the child, the little guy was clamoring to go back to his grandmother's house, Ma Li took the opportunity to take the child back to her parents' house, and left Li Tie alone at home.
After that, Qi Jun's wife found the army and had a big quarrel with her. The leaders of the army talked to her, and her parents also expelled her from the house and ordered her to return to Li Tie!
In the evening, she asked Qi Jun to meet at a bar, but he missed the appointment. Ma Li poured herself a drink alone and was drunk. Sent home by taxi late at night. She was dazzled to find that the lights in the room were still on, and it was obvious that Li Tie was still waiting for her. Drunk and clear, she was very sad, so she could only rush into the bathroom with the strength of the wine and vomit. Li Tie silently handed over a glass of warm water and walked away. When she came out of the bathroom, the lights in her bedroom were out.
Ma Li woke up, it was more than 9 o'clock in the morning the next day, and she found that Li Tie's military uniform and suitcase were gone. There was a letter left for her on the bedside table:
Ma Li: I've heard about you and that person, and I was waiting for you last night to have a good talk with you, but I was completely disappointed to see you like that. Your great change is heartbreaking!
There's still something going on in the troops, so I'm leaving. If you feel unhappy living with me, I won't force it, I agree to a divorce!
Li Tie was early in the morning.
After reading the letter, Ma Li sat down at the head of the bed. Li Tie's letter was concise and to the point, and so far, she felt that the fate of this marriage was still in her own hands. Is it "the shore to turn back" or is it a "death penalty"?Since she was a child, Ma Li has never been confused or distressed about what she has gained or lost, and today she hesitated ......
In the old place, Ma Li waited for Qi Jun to come, and she wanted to hear what he had to say.
Qi Jun frowned and pondered for a while, and asked her, "Do you want to leave Dalian to settle down in the field army?" Mary shook her head; He asked, "Are you willing to live apart for the rest of your life?" She shook her head again. "That's good! Please look me in the eyes, I am willing to be Yu Lian, you are my Marquis Princess - Martel! Ma Li was moved by his true feelings, and said with tears in her eyes: "But the old marquis has already retired from the army, and he will not support us, and we will be in a desperate situation." Qi Jun kissed her tears away and said, "As long as we have love." ”
There was no turning back from the bow. Ma Li personally "shot" her marriage to Li Tie. For this, he paid a terrible price: his old father was so angry that he had a heart attack and was admitted to the hospital; The 6-year-old son was sentenced to Li Tie; I also had to change jobs to work in a commercial sector.
Qi Jun also divorced his wife. The 8-year-old son followed him, and they rebuilt a family of three.
Four. The difficulty of remarriage life is something that Ma Li did not imagine. She moved out of the large house in the dry retreat and crammed into a small room with three people, sharing the kitchen and bathroom. Ma Li, who has been managed by cooks and guards since she was a child, and grew up eating in the army canteen, now knows that there are still so many housework to do. The child's voice called to make her miss even more that she had never left her grandmother and grandfather, and now she followed Li Tie to Dongdong in Jilin. In the second month of remarriage, Ma Li fell ill with exhaustion.
One day, Qi Jun came back and told her excitedly: "Ma Li, these days have really hurt you and made you suffer a lot of grievances. I've already resigned and gone to sea! My goal is to start a global company! "If you don't discuss such a big thing as resignation with me, do you still have me in your heart?" Ma Li's anger provoked Qi Jun as well.
fired: "Good intentions are not rewarded, I am all for you!" "
Qi Jun resigned from his position as a university lecturer, entrusted someone with a loan of 1 million, and set up a ** company. He also used the example of three Baihui supporting Tomokazu Miura, and encouraged Ma Li to resign and support his career wholeheartedly.
Ma Li, who has always been orthodox in the barracks. There are always some scruples about going to the sea. Later, she saw that Qi Jun ate half of her salary at a banquet, and Ma Li's self-esteem was greatly stimulated. So, she also resigned and went to work in the finance department of Qijun Company. However, in less than half a year, Ma Li discovered that Qi Jun's business was purely fancy. He is so ambitious, and many of his methods do not work at all in practice. Moreover, he is very conceited and never listens to the advice of others. As a result, less than a year after the company was founded, it lost half of its money.
One day, Qi Jun told her that there was a batch of goods that wanted to go to the military line, and asked her to go back and ask her old father to accommodate his old subordinates. Ma Li said: "Don't dream, the old man is famous, don't let us ruin it." Qi Jun quarreled with her and walked away.
Ma Li clearly realized that the shopping mall was like a battlefield, and it would be a dead end for her to toss like Qi Jun again, and she had to open up another battlefield, and only her old parents could help her. Thinking of this, she ran home, knelt on the ground, no matter how her father scolded, she just didn't get up, and her mother hugged her and wiped her tears. After all, the daughter is the heart of her parents, her father gritted his teeth and gave her the lifelong savings of the old couple, she added that Dalian is a tourist city, so she used her parents' savings to open a very distinctive restaurant. She worked hard to run it, and used the profits of the restaurant to make up for the deficit of the military company. But Qi Jun's company still didn't improve. Seeing her ambitious husband gradually becoming decadent, Ma Li was moved by compassion, and she couldn't let others see her newlywed's jokes. Everything about Qi Jun today is also because of her! "I'm going to save him! Ma Li handed over the booming hotel to Qi Jun, asked him to be the general manager, and retired as an accountant.
Gradually, the Qi army did not go home for the night. Aunt Chen, who was washing vegetables in the restaurant, quietly told her: "Manager Ma, you treat me well on weekdays, I can't hide it from you, your husband and the new Miss Zhao ......."Everyone knows, so I hide it from you! "Miss Zhao and Qi Jun, how is it possible?
However, Ma Li still saw the scene in the manager's room that she didn't want to believe the most. She turned and ran back, plugged in the door and packed her things. Qi Jun followed closely and also arrived home, he knocked on the door, Ma Li did not open, he smashed the glass on the door with a punch, and blood flowed down his arm. Ma Li didn't expect him to do this, and hurriedly took out the potion and gauze to bandage him. Qi Jun tearfully swore that he would never do anything sorry for her again. Miss Zhao left the hotel that day, and a storm subsided.
On the twenty-ninth day of the lunar month in 1994, Ma Li accompanied Qi Jun to go out to collect debts. On the passenger ferry to Yantai, they only bought one ticket for a loose seat. The night was bitterly cold, Qi Jun fell asleep wrapped in a military coat, and she curled up to the side, her mouth was frozen purple. The old lady on the side said: "This daughter-in-law is pitiful enough to have such a husband." Ma Li listened to it with a sour heart. She suddenly remembered Li Tie, every time she visited her home during the Spring Festival, Li Tie used her solid body to block the crowded ** for her.
As soon as she arrived in Yantai, she fell ill, and Qi Jun urged the account for two days, but no result came out. He asked Ma Li to wait for money while recuperating in Yantai, and then went to Xuzhou to urge another payment. Ma Li stayed in Yantai for 10 days before returning to Dalian with the money order. When she opened the door of the house, she was stunned by the scene in front of her: Qi Jun and Miss Zhao, who had been fired, were sleeping naked on her bed, and Ma Li fainted due to excessive exhaustion and anger.
Five. After that, Ma Li officially filed for divorce from Qi Jun. On the way to the court to go through the formalities, Qi Jun suddenly bowed down and cried out in heartache, saying that he was about to suffocate. Ma Li had no choice but to send him to the hospital, and when he arrived at the hospital, Qi Jun's illness was cured again. This divorce was aborted with Qi Jun's pitiful confession.
Just when Ma Li's heart gradually calmed down, another thing dealt her a fatal blow. On this day, Qi Jun went to take a bath and left his mobile phone at home. As soon as the mobile phone rang, Ma Li took it, it was a woman calling, and the other party kept interrogating who she was. Ma Li became alert and said that it was the Qi family's nanny. The other party sneered: "You have to be careful, Qi Jun is a **." Ma Li chased after him and asked, "Who are you?" The other party told: "I am Qi Jun's wife." She also told Ma Li that she was a student of Qi Jun. In the year when Ma Li and Qi Jun got married, Qi Jun, who made a fortune with a loan, wrapped her up as a "second wife", and in the 5 years of marriage between Ma Li and Qi Jun, she has always played the role of Qi Jun's "partial room". Oh, my God! What a shame! Ma Li, a descendant of a general and a once majestic female officer, today has fallen into the fate of several women serving a husband!
Although Qi Jun threatened to commit suicide by cutting his wrists, Ma Li resolutely moved out of Qi's house. It was summer vacation, and the arrival of Dongdong eased Ma Li's pain a little. Li Tie is now the youngest division-level cadre in a certain group army, and his wife has a daughter. Looking at her black and thin son, Ma Li's tears flowed out: "Retribution! This is the retribution I am sorry for Li Tie and sorry for my family. ”
Piece. Ma Li began to seriously reflect on her marriage and the road she had traveled. In order to encourage their injured daughter to get back together, the old general and his wife took Ma Li to Mount Emei for a vacation. Nature's far-reaching and indifferent nature made Ma Li's mood suddenly brighten. The general's father had a long talk with her all night: Son, you have taken so many detours, haven't you found the reason from your own personality? Don't look at other people's faults, think more about your own shortcomings. After this painful reflection, Ma Li finally found the root of her series of failures: it was the "demons" that she cultivated in a privileged environment since she was a child and couldn't withstand failure that harmed her.
After all, she has the blood of a soldier in her veins, and the legendary experience of her fathers who have gone through difficult entrepreneurship inspires her. At this time, Ma Li's sister returned from England to visit relatives. She encouraged Ma Li to continue learning English, and she wanted to help her go abroad for further study. After many setbacks, Ma Li finally passed the second-level Cambridge certificate exam at the age of 38.
With the support of her younger sister, Ma Li enrolled in a part-time college in London at her own expense, majoring in English. Although she and Qi Jun no longer have any feelings to speak of, because Qi Jun's company closed down soon after she went abroad, they were too busy to go through the divorce procedures.
Ma Li is a Chinese businessman who teaches Chinese to her 9-year-old son. The merchant's brother, George, whose wife had died of illness for many years, had a good relationship with Mary and gradually fell in love with her. On Valentine's Day, George proposed to Mary with a bouquet of roses, but Mary refused.
Ma Li's goal is very clear, she wants to complete her studies and become a self-reliant woman with career support. She also has to bring her son Dongdong and do her duty as a mother.