Author: Emotional expert Guoguo.
Introduction
No matter how cold and difficult this winter is, we must believe that spring will come as scheduled!Life is like a play, everyone is their own director, is it a comedy, horror, or tragedy? It's all about directing yourself.
Whether there are ratings, applause, or audiences for film and television works depends on the quality and subject matter of your works, and whether they can be recognized and loved by the audience.
The same is true of life, whether you are happy or not, rich or poor, depends on your cognition.
If you're not doing well, you must have something wrong with yourself. Stop complaining, seriously reflect and summarize yourself, find out the reasons to correct yourself, and get back on the right track of life as soon as possible.
Lu Yao said: Everyone has a time to awaken, and the awakening sooner or later determines a person's fate.
1. Self is the root of everything
Sachs said:
"All poverty in the world is a pathology, the result of bad circumstances, bad thoughts, bad behaviors. ”If you're suffering from poverty right now, you're in debt, that's what you did five years ago, ten years ago, because of the "bad causes."
Five years ago, because you were so ambitious, you didn't make a little money for the sake of face, you sat there and ate nothing, and consumed ahead of time, which led to the current high debt.
When you can't sustain it, when you are about to lose food, you slowly "wake up" to see the truth of life and realize how ignorant you were before.
But it doesn't matter, as long as you're alive, as long as you're still thinking about it, anything is possible.
Just spend money to buy lessons.
Now you can only constantly reflect on and summarize what you have done in the past, and make up your mind to change yourself. In order to turn all the regrets and losses in the past into surprises and gains.
2. When you get better, life can get better
Life has never changed, only a better version of yourself has gotten better.When a person makes a mistake, he does not shirk, reflects on himself, and strives to correct it, which is a person's inner cultivation. Only such a person can constantly revise himself, improve himself, make continuous progress, and surpass himself.
Don't complain, don't make excuses, bravely admit that everything is your own reason, so that you can reflect and summarize well, find out the shortcomings, dig deep into the reasons, prescribe the right medicine, and change yourself.
Only when you get better can your life gradually get better.
There are two causes of poverty:
One is inaction, because of laziness, for the sake of face, not to make a small profit.
Second, there is no self-discipline and uncontrolled spending of money, which can easily lead to extravagance and waste and profligacy. If you give him the whole world to such a person, sooner or later you will squander it.
There is nothing difficult in the world of diligence, and everything in the world is resting when you are lazy!
As the old saying goes: God rewards hard work!
Even if a hard-working person cannot be rich, he can at least ensure that a person can get out of poverty and have no worries about food and clothing.
Once people are lazy, there is nothing the gods can do.
As for face, I can't eat food, what more face do I need, and how much is face worth?
Li Ka-shing said: "When you put down your bottom line to make money, it means that you have matured. ”
Making money is one thing, but whether you can save money is another.
You are now a debtor and need absolute self-discipline to control your spending. Open source and reduce expenditure, be diligent and thrifty, do not waste money that should not be spent, and develop a good habit of saving. Persist for a while, you will see the hope of "going ashore", and you will feel more and more relaxed, as long as you persevere, you will definitely usher in a new world.
Poverty eradication starts with diligence and self-discipline!
3. You can lose a hundred times, but you must win the last time
Liu Bang said:
"You can lose a hundred times, but you have to win the last time".When Liu Bang was young, he was also a drunkard and full of gangsterism. At the age of 48, he opened a broad road to imperial power.
It doesn't matter if you're poor for a while, it's okay if you're wrong, but you have to win one last time.
Zeng Guofan said: "Young people are not allowed to have a good time; Middle-aged people are not allowed to be idle; Old age must not adversity. ”
If we are now in middle age, we must accept the lessons of our youth to win the last time and accumulate strong strength for our later life.
Because in our old age, we can't afford to lose, and it can be said that we don't have the strength and opportunity to lose.
Give yourself your old age and direct a comedy!
Write at the end:
No matter what mistakes you make and how unfavorable the situation you have created for yourself, poverty and debt are all things of the past.
We can pay for the past, but we can't always stay in the regret of the past.
Poverty is not terrible, but it is terrible to forget the lessons that poverty has taught us. As long as we accept the lesson, learn the lesson, and start again with our heads held high, we will definitely be able to get out of the predicament as soon as possible and become a different version of ourselves.
When you succeed, you will be grateful for this time of "correction" of poverty, and it is poverty and suffering that have made you who you are.
No matter how cold and difficult this winter is, we must believe that spring will come as scheduled!
Everyone is their own best director
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