When it's ambiguous, anything is fine, you are the person I want. When the ambiguity ends, everything changes, you are you, I am me, and we will be okay from now on.
Many people will encounter this situation: in a relationship, they obviously pay a lot, but they never get the desired result; I've already got a response, but I'm not giving up.
So after the ambiguity, how to correctly judge the feelings between each other?
After the ambiguity, they no longer contact each other
One person likes the other, and even if he is busy, he will find time to send a message to the other person, and he will reply in time when he sends a message.
One person doesn't like the other, even if he is free, he will find an excuse not to reply to messages, and even if he is busy, he will find an excuse not to reply to messages.
True love is in the heart, not in the words.
When a person is not in love, they will become very indifferent and start to be too lazy to contact the other person.
Even if you send a message to the other person, there will be no reply.
Some people are like this, they obviously like each other, but they pretend not to care.
This kind of person has one characteristic: they are very selfish. I only have myself in my heart, and I never take each other to heart.
True love is a two-way trip, not a one-way give. If one party keeps giving and the other keeps taking, sooner or later the balance will be lost.
When you find that the person you like is no longer in contact with you, it's time to think about your relationship.
When it was ambiguous, both of them were very active
In a relationship, if a person always takes the initiative, it means that he loves you very much. When a person doesn't love you, he will be cold and won't take the initiative to contact you.
Although it is said that it is a virtue to take the initiative to connect, if a person has a crush on you, they will become proactive. Because he wants to get your attention, he will do it his own way.
So in a relationship, when a person has a crush on another person, he will become very proactive, showing that he cares and cares even if it is a little thing.
When two people get along, if one person is always very active, then he must love you.
He will reach out to you and send you a message. As much as he wants to get your attention and concern, he knows it's not good for either of you to do so.
But if a person doesn't have a crush on you, then he won't be too enthusiastic. He won't contact you very often, and he won't talk to you often.
In a relationship, the attitude of two people determines the relationship between you.
After the ambiguity, it suddenly became very cold
When you are ambiguous, a look or a word from the other party can make you excited all day long.
Therefore, the ambiguous period can easily make people suffer from gains and losses, and even become very humble.
Many times, the coldness after the ambiguity is often because the other party has changed his mind.
From liking to disliking, it's just a matter of moments.
When two people slowly become very cold, and they don't even want to have anything to do with each other anymore, the relationship is over.
Therefore, in the ambiguous period, don't do anything that you are not sure of, and don't give your sincerity easily.
After the ambiguity, when the other party becomes very cold, you should stop the loss in time and stop wasting your time and energy.
Some people may say, "I want to be in a relationship with him too!" But he already has a girlfriend! ”
In fact, the principle is the same, when you have not established a relationship, don't provoke others.