Looking back on the flash marriage of a 46 year old divorced girl and a 23 year old boy, after many

I support you in divorcing your father, and you also have the right to pursue your own happiness in the future.

A middle-aged woman tearfully said in the interview: "Special thanks to my son for saying this, which gave me the courage to start a new life." ”

After all, as a 46-year-old divorced woman, she knows that such an identity seems to have passed a relatively failed life in society, and the past of marriage is like an indelible stain in the book of life.

However, now she has not only met the right person, but even a young man who is about the same age as her son, but the anger and incomprehension of her family and the strange eyes thrown around her have made Li Liangyou question whether her choice is correct for a long time, and repeatedly ask her heart, whether she really has enough strength to withstand those gossips?

Fortunately, in the end, Li Liangyou still strengthened his determination to go on together with the courage given by his lover.

So, what kind of young man touched Li Liangyou's heart? And what brought two people with such a big age difference together? Can this unanticipated sister-brother relationship have a good ending?

In 1993, Tan Wanping, who was born in Liangping County, Chongqing, spent an unrestrained happy childhood in this city known as a mountain city, and became a kind and optimistic person under the hard teaching of his parents.

It is also this kind of family atmosphere that makes Tan Wanping very assertive since he was a child, and he also has his own plans for his future life, he clearly knows that he is really not interested in learning, and there is a high probability that he will not be able to make much breakthrough in learning, so he chose to enter the society earlier than his peers.

In his eyes, there is no fixed answer to life, just like Lu Xun said, "There is no road in the world, but there are more people who walk, and it becomes a road", based on this, he also wants to chase his own "road", because those rules and regulations are not what he desires.

However, this choice was naturally criticized by relatives and friends, and in the eyes of the people in the village, anyone can do hard work, and only by making money by brain power is advanced, otherwise why study.

However, Tan Wanping is quite disdainful of those tongue-chewing words, he feels that life is his own, why should he live in the eyes of others, and why should he pay attention to these old-fashioned and self-contained people who always want to bind others with their own ideas.

Tan Wanping wants to become a chef and wants to be a person who eats by hand, and feels that ordinary people's professions are not high or low, and it is not inferior to others to make money by their own ability.

Parents have always been very supportive of Tan Wanping's decision, because they know that their son is a person who is more resilient and patient than anyone else, and he can persevere to the end no matter what decision he makes, and they have always been very proud of Tan Wenping.

So, with the strong support of his parents, Tan Wanping signed up for a social cooking class, hard work to learn cooking knowledge, life really needs a variety of experiences and exploration, he found that he did not have a talent in textbook learning in cooking is well displayed, even the teacher of the cooking class often praises him for learning fast and talented.

Soon, Tan Wanping, who successfully mastered his cooking skills, found a well-paid job, and among his peers who were still struggling to find a suitable job when he first entered the society, the 23-year-old Tan Wanping has been able to balance his work and life well, which has also made a great change in many people who did not understand his choice in the past, and even admired his original insistence.

Of course, work is not the whole of life, at least not in the traditional parental mindset.

In the opinion of Tan Wanping's parents, since they already have a stable job and income, the next step is to enter the state of marriage and love.

So, just like the parents of all marriageable young people, Tan's father and Tan's mother also began to take turns to stage a "marriage urging" bombardment, gathering all the strength of relatives and friends to Tan Wanping's various "red lines" and arranging a blind date bureau.

In fact, the excellent Tan Wanping has not been without girls who have expressed their affection to him over the years, but they have all been rejected by Tan Wanping one by one.

It's not that he doesn't want to fall in love, it's just that from the moment he decided to drop out of school and enter society, Tan Wanping knew that he was not a person who liked to be led by the nose, if he had to enter marriage, then the other party must be the one who could communicate with his heart.

Marriage is based on love, age is not a prerequisite for marriage", Tan Wanping has tried to persuade his parents many times with such words, but marriage and love have always been a major event in traditional domestic families, and it is difficult for Tan Wanping to reconcile with his parents in this matter.

As a son, Tan Wanping also knows that his parents are worried about the good of their children, but they will never compromise on this matter easily.

He sometimes even thinks that if he really can't find the right person, even if he is single all the time, there is nothing wrong with it.

If Tan Wanping's life is boring, maybe he will urgently need to find someone to drive away loneliness, but his life is full and positive, Tan Wanping has a job he loves, and he is constantly looking for his hobbies after work.

Therefore, he joined in to participate in the local cycling activities, intentionally planting flowers and flowers, and unintentionally planting willows and willows, and it was under this coincidence that Tan Wanping met Li Liangyou.

At first, Tan Wanping's attitude towards Li Liangyou was just a respected sister, a "rider" who could talk to each other, and their understanding of each other was limited to joking and chatting during the break in the middle of the ride, and the opportunity for the relationship between the two to heat up quickly was due to an accident.

Sports activities are prone to accidents, not to mention that Li Liangyou's physical strength has never been too good, and he accidentally fell during the ride, so Tan Wanping, who noticed it for the first time, hurriedly sent Li Liangyou to a nearby hospital.

It was also this accident that Tan Wanping learned in the exchange that Li Liangyou was a single mother, her son was going to school outside, and no one could take care of her.

During the conversation during the escort, Tan Wanping learned about Li Liangyou's life and that failed marriage.

Li Liangyou, who was born in 1970, has a good face and a gentle personality, when he was young, he was the white moonlight in the hearts of many people, and the suitors who came to the door were naturally endless, and the husband at that time was one of the ordinary suitors, but the promise he made was the heaviest of all, supplemented by the fierce pursuit offensive, which made Li Liangyou, who had little experience in love, moved.

It's a pity that the ex-husband after marriage is very different from what he said, not only treats her badly, but also is unfaithful to the marriage, Li Liangyou, who was pregnant with a son at the time, didn't want the child to live in a single-parent family, so he endured it in every possible way, but in the end, because he couldn't stand the ex-husband who violated the bottom line many times, he divorced under pressure and became an unpopular single mother.

Tan Wanping was just distressed about Li Liangyou's experience at first, but during a period of time in the hospital, he was gradually attracted by Li Liangyou's conversation and elegant temperament, and he found that the type he liked should be such a mature and gentle woman, and Li Liangyou, who had been single for a long time, was also opened by the young man in front of him who was capable and responsible, and was good at taking care of people.

Two souls who yearn for beauty and love hit it off, although it is a heavenly work, but the reality is full of concerns due to various factors.

Li Liangyou, who had a failed marriage, already had a lot of anxiety, and during a trip with Tan Wanping, he was unintentionally asked by outsiders, "Is this your son?" It made Li Liangyou doubt his decision to fall in love with Tan Wanping, after all, his son is only 20 years old, and the boy in front of him is only 3 years old.

She knew that Tan Wanping, who was only 23 years old, was still too young, and there might be better choices in the future, would she become a burden that dragged him down? These troubles are the sword of Damocles hanging in Li Liangyou's heart, which will fall at any time, if it can't be solved, Li Liangyou may choose to terminate this love that is not favored by the world, so Tan Wanping, who protects his lover, decided to disclose their love to his parents in order to dispel the doubts of his beloved girlfriend, and informed them that he wanted to flash the news of marriage.

Tan's father and Tan's mother, who learned this bombshell news, were so angry that their heads smoked, Tan's mother couldn't understand her son's approach, and shouted loudly desperately, accusing Tan Wanping of unfilial piety, and even Tan's father, who had always been reasonable, couldn't help but lose his temper with Tan Wanping.

You may still be young and have enough energy to fall in love, and when you reach middle age, she is approaching old age, can you still guarantee that you will be able to love her faithfully and take care of her? Father scolded.

His father's angry question caused a lot of ripples in Tan Wanping's heart, marriage is not a trivial matter, love is impulse and passion, marriage is responsibility and responsibility, he is also thinking, can he really take this responsibility and love her wholeheartedly to old age?

Fortunately, after careful consideration, Tan Wanping still strengthened his heart, and clearly knew that the decision he made was never impulsive, let alone the recklessness of young people, but he really loved Li Liangyou deeply, and believed that their meeting was fate.

What's more, from dropping out of school to work outside, and now falling in love with a 46-year-old divorced woman, his decisions are always not recognized by outsiders, and in the end, Tan Wanping can always prove with his actions that his choice is correct, and he will never regret the road he has walked.

So, Tan Wanping took Li Liangyou home, wanting to let his parents accept Li Liangyou through contact, during the period of cohabitation, Li Liangyou, who is kind and gentle and very good at taking care of people, gradually dispelled the concerns of Tan's father and mother, looking at the scene of his son and her love, Tan's father and Tan's mother, who loved the house and Wu, could no longer bear to break up the two, and finally, agreed to the marriage of the two.

Although it was already a day that had been prepared for a long time, on the day of the wedding, Li Liangyou still shed tears of excitement, just like the words of encouragement her son once said, she believed that no matter how old she was, she had the right to pursue her own happiness.

After marriage, Tan Wanping took great care of Li Liangyou, and all the housework such as cooking and laundry was taken care of, and the tacit understanding between the two was increasing day by day, even if there were occasional small contradictions, they could be quickly resolved, because the two could always consider problems from each other's standpoint, understand each other and take care of each other

As a couple, the biggest problem they encountered between them was just childbearing, and Li Liangyou tried many times to no avail because he was past the age suitable for childbearing and his body was weak.

The doctor also thinks that Li Liangyou's birth is more dangerous and does not recommend giving birth again, but Tan Wanping is very calm about this, he comforted Li Liangyou, the two of us just live a healthy and happy life, and it doesn't matter if we don't have children.

Now the two have been married for six years, but they are still in love like their first love, and Li Liangyou, surrounded by strong love, maintains a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, and looks younger and younger.

Now she believes that society is too restrictive on age, and the phrase what age to do what makes everyone live in endless pursuit, as if as long as you don't complete what should be done at that age, it is a failure, a mistake, and a shame by everyone, and age anxiety has not stopped since the moment of adulthood.

Everybody's right? We live for the expectations of others, for the standards given by society, so when can we live for ourselves?

In those days of thinking about life, Li Liangyou also became more and more determined in his original decision.

Anyone can chase what they want at any point in time, everyone has the right to chase the life they want, everyone has their own indicators in their own timeline, as long as they live their life well, they are successful.

Life is not a long-distance run, everyone's starting point is not the same, it is unfair to stipulate that everyone reaches the same destination at the same point in time, there are many possibilities in life, do it boldly if you want to do it, love boldly if you want to love, and it is never too late at any time.

At the end of the article, I also hope that everyone can be full and happy when recalling their past times, be true to their hearts, and will not regret the good times.

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