In the past two days, Mr. Su has been a guest on "Friends" and has properly swiped a wave of hot searches, and Mr. Su's high emotional intelligence speech and humor have also properly circled a wave of fans, "Qizai is the top brand, just like Chu Sheng".
You can give it to yourself, neither lover nor child", and is constantly callbacking, frequently cue the stalk of their game that year, just like Wang Lixin's abstention stalk.
What made the audience laugh and sigh that the family atmosphere was too good to wake up.
In the past two years, it is not difficult to find through the variety shows of Awakening and the updated content of his social platform that Awakening is not only a humorous and optimistic person, but also a person who can compare his heart with his heart and empathize.
For example, in "Happy Again", the six brothers played tricks in a TV series to earn living expenses, and at the end of the dinner, they talked about those group performances who really went to make cameos, and with a daily remuneration of 120 yuan, whether they could eat their table of dishes.
Awakening has the ability to perceive the emotions of others, and to make them feel comfortable in their own way and in their own words. This is due to his relaxed family environment and good family education, his father Lao Su also opened his own account on the short ** platform, and his mother Ahe also appeared frequently.
Every time I look at Mr. Su's **, I will be infected by his optimistic humor and Ahe's gentleness. Let's talk about the education of Mr. Su and Ahe today.
Have an eye for finding the good.
In the view of the awakened mother Ahe, in life, we should pay more attention to and observe the shining points of children. Even if he has a lot of bad performance, as long as there is a little bit of good performance, you have to notice it, and you have to praise him. He immediately felt that if he was praised, then he was still good, and then he might want to do better.
For example, a child doesn't like to do housework at all, but suddenly one day he tidies up his things, and then you say:"You've cleaned up the house today, you're doing a great job. ”He'll feel like I'm going to have to clean up better tomorrow. Therefore, it is necessary to find out more about the good performance of your child, and then encourage him more, then he will do better and better, and he will become more and more confident.
The mother's gentleness and the father's optimism have a great impact on the child.
In Mr. Su's **, it is not difficult to see that the awakened mother Ahe is very gentle and speaks slowly. This kind of stable emotions of parents can drive children to have stable emotions, which is conducive to children's mental health and self-confidence. Who wouldn't want to have such a gentle mom and dad?
In addition, Mr. Su's optimism and positivity also have a positive impact on Su Xing, between him and Su Xing, they are more like friends, they will play basketball together, they will chat together, they will joke with each other, and they will open their hearts to each other.
In "Happy Again", when Su Xing talked about his negative assets and came home, his father did not blame him or comfort him, but teased him"You're all negative, and you let me take you home. ”When he woke up, he instantly swept away the haze in his heart. It is also this sentence that does a good job of pulling the awakening out of the emotion of failure.
Father has to have a big picture.
After the game, Mr. Su rushed over to invite their 13 brothers to dinner, and said something like this: "In the past, you were contestants, and even sometimes you were competitors, but now you are comrades-in-arms at the beginning of the tour, and you will always be friends in the future." ”
Such a sentence laid the foundation of the 0713 friendship.
The pattern of the father shapes the quality of the child and determines the way the child lives. Fathers may wish to learn from Mr. Su, the pattern is open, and the child may give you unexpected surprises.
The trust and support of parents is the confidence of children.
Aha said:"My son is a gold in my heart. Whether he's at a low point or a setback, I think he's always going to shine. ”The trust and support of parents is about the greatest confidence and self-confidence of children**.
Ah He and Lao Su always support and trust their son not only in language, they will carefully watch every show their son participates in, and they will also give their own evaluation. "I think my son's high notes have always been good, but he never shows them. ”
I believe that every child will be touched when they hear such words. It can be said that the trust and support of parents has a profound impact on both the family and the child, not only to promote family harmony, but also to make the child more confident and have the courage to face all difficulties.
Ladies and dads, if you are also scratching your head for parenting, you might as well relax, brush up on Mr. Su's **, and watch their variety shows, maybe you can find the answer from it.