There's nothing to think about, I just want to leave you behind.
Mr. Ji Xianlin once sighed: "On the road of life, everyone is a lonely traveler. ”
Loneliness is the background color of life; Born as human beings, each with its own loneliness.
The objective world, hospitality
As "Be Kind to Destiny" says, "Careful observation of life allows us to see through this bright world." "The world, a whole where the abstract and the concrete coexist, is not subject to human will. Each person acts as a unique individual, both beautiful and ugly, and the so-called advantages and disadvantages largely depend on people's subjective consciousness. As the saying goes, "the same scenery, every time you look at it, you will find something different", getting along with the world more harmoniously requires us to return to life, observe those things that we are accustomed to, and not produce one-sided interpretations due to subjective assumptions. 
After going through all kinds of situations in the world, I feel the warmth and coldness of human feelings
A thousand words are not as good as an experience, as ordinary peopleOnly after experiencing various situations in life can we truly understand the true meaning of life and human feelings. As the only boy of the same generation in the family, Ji Xianlin was taken to his uncle's house in Jinan at the age of six. On the one hand, he misses his family and his mother very much, but he never dares to confide in him, for fear that his uncle will be unhappy, and even more afraid that his mother will be sad and cry. On the other hand, he didn't like his father to come to his uncle's house even more, because every time his idle father came, it was not to see him, but to ask his uncle for money to squander. Once, when my father came again, my aunt was very angry and yelled, accusing Sang of scolding Huaidi. Even if he didn't say it, the young Ji Xianlin could understand it. Naturally, my father no longer had the face to take my uncle's money, and he would never come back again after he went back, which made Ji Xianlin's heart very frightened, and he knew how to read words and emotions at a young age. Later, Ji Xianlin studied hard and was admitted to Tsinghua University, and after graduation, he returned to his alma mater, Jinan High School, to teach, and became colleagues with his original teacher. The school assigned him to teach three classes in three grades, and he had to prepare three books for the preparation of classes, and all of them were classical literary works. What made Ji Xianlin's heart tremble was that the distance between him and the teacher was getting farther and farther away. Their relationship has changed from teacher and student to colleague, Ji Xianlin described: "In their eyes, I am almost a thorn in the side. Although he understands the sophistication of the people, Ji Xianlin's heart is still very desolate. When I was a child, I always thought that the person who has always been good to me will always be the most trustworthy person, but when I grow up, I understand that the most reliable is only the person with independent personality, spiritual freedom, and economic stability, and the reality is so cruel. Only by truly experiencing it will we know more about how to get along with others, so that we can protect ourselves and not harm others. No one owes anyone all the time, so let's live more independently and with more dignity in the vast sea of people. 
Explore inward and master the rhythm
Loneliness, when you concentrate on cultivation, is not the same"Retreat"?
The road I walked alone was more impressive and felt the most.
When you can really use this time to improve yourself, your heart and belief will become stronger.
Those doubts and self-denial that have been lingering in your ears for many years will eventually disappear without a trace in your persistence. You no longer hesitate, no longer anxious, find your own rhythm, and calmly face your life.
If you live freely in this way, you can also live with peace of mind. No matter when and where, he will have a clear conscience and walk openly between heaven and earth.
Finally
The materialistic world is wrapped in too much chaos.
Being alone is an effective way for us to get rid of dirt, and it is a compulsory lesson on our life path.
It is always the highest recognition of a person and the best look of a person.
From now on, Caicai hopes that you and I can become an "independent" person in this complicated world, with the ability to control a unique life.
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