The so-called parents' love for their children is to respect the child's independent personality and listen to his inner voice.
Parents who yell, scold, preach, and always love perfunctory things, in the end, can only get children who choose to shut up and refuse to communicate.
Why is it so important for children to listen to parents? Because listening is an important way to care for children, both mentally and emotionally.
I am also a person from the past, as parents, just rely on our own thinking, and even emotionally educate children, there is no scientific method, it is basically counterproductive, the parent-child relationship will not improve, and it will also delay the child's ** development period!
I suggest that I still find a professional to consult to solve this problem, I came here like this, the child really can't discipline well, we are looking for a good family on the high road, Song Li teacher is a national second-level psychological counselor, specifically for teenagers who are tired of school and psychological counseling, the content is simple to understand, very easy to understand, and can also propose different solutions to different problems of parents.
I learned a lot of family education knowledge from Mr. Song Li, realized my wrong way of education, and finally knew how to get along with my children correctly, and now I am more like friends with my children.
When a child has a problem, the parents' patient listening will make him feel accepted and understood, and when the child is depressed, the parents' patient listening will make him better cathartic and **.
When the child puts forward the need, the parents' patient listening, will let him gain respect and care, listening is the beginning of communication, only we learn, listen to the child's words with heart, the child will listen to our words.
Nature gives us a mouth and two ears, which is to let us talk less and listen more, and hope that parents can listen to his words in the communication with their children. High Path