Once you enter the system, basically you have to work for the rest of your life in the unit you are admitted to.
The freshness of the new entrance examination allows you to keep getting to know this and that, and expand your network.
All the big and small leaders care about you, and in order to cultivate you, various departments compete for you, satisfying your competitiveness and vanity.
Work very seriously every day, resist going to work when you are sick, have something at home, don't ask for leave if you can, work-oriented, I have this self-motivation when I was studying, I'm afraid Tsinghua University and Peking University can also be admitted.
However, when you work for a few years, everything changes.
Began to be reticent
Silence means less quarrels, and when you are faced with all kinds of people every day, and you want to pull him into your mind to understand something, he can't understand it, and you can't understand what he does, it's easy to get into arguments.
After the quarrel, it will bring trouble to ourselves all day, and even others will talk about it behind our backs, which will cause us even more trouble.
Silence can make a gushing person punch cotton.
After being silent, you will feel that the world is quiet and peaceful.
Begin to be estranged
After work, all kinds of drinking places, restaurants, and people gradually increase, and you are busy with all kinds of entertainment every day, but you brag to people with low status, and you listen to the bragging skin of high status.
In the wine field, at the dinner party, everyone bragged about it, and the alcohol anesthetized the nerves, and they were lost in the cups.
When a colleague complains to you, when you say something to complain, he will say behind the other person's back, who are you talking about, how to do it. Colleagues in the system cannot be friends.
All kinds of occasions bind us, human nature is complex and changeable, today you have a good time with him, tomorrow he will turn against you.
Alienating all kinds of occasions and people allows you to sail steadily on the rough waves, as long as you have the courage to alienate the person, he can be respected in the unit.
No more flattery
The most common thing in the system is to flatter and flatter, in the face of the leader, you are flattering, and you are also flattering to your colleagues, even the little kid next to you, you have to have a rainbow fart, because his father is the head of the organization department.
All kinds of friends rely on flattery, because people in the system like flattery.
When you are enlightened, you stop flattering, and you will be yourself.
When we give up all kinds of intoxicating occasions, give up some unnecessary socializing, and refuse some jobs that don't belong to you. Operate your own social life with your heart, return to your family, return to life, and have your own preferences.
Only after you truly do yourself, can you truly experience the happiness of a first-class staff member.