There is a man who is a little different, and he is my husband. Whenever he returns to his parents' house during the Chinese New Year, he always becomes an "alternative" in the eyes of everyone, but he doesn't care, he still does what he likes and enjoys his time.
My husband doesn't like to play mahjong, he thinks it's too noisy, and he likes to quietly admire everything around him. Once, while everyone was playing cards in the house, he was nowhere to be seen. We searched for a long time and finally found him in the backyard. He circled around a plum tree, nodding his head as he looked at it, as if he were talking to it. We were all amused by his actions, but he said solemnly, "You don't understand, this tree is really charming." ”
Another time, a neighbor's junior boy came to ask her husband about math. The husband sat down patiently and began to think seriously. He stroked his hair and frowned and pondered, and finally came up with three ways to solve the problem. The boy is very grateful and we are proud of his wisdom. But my husband modestly said, "It's just a little bit of my idea, maybe there's a better way." ”
In her mother's house, relatives always like to compare and tout, but her husband always stays out of the way and is unwilling to participate. When others show off his accomplishments in front of him, he just smiles and nods and never interjects. When asked how much he earns, he always says lightly: "It's okay, enough for living expenses." "He never flaunts his accomplishments, nor does he compare the successes of others.
For her husband's character, her mother-in-law dislikes it a little, feeling that he is not flamboyant enough and not face-saving enough. But in my opinion, that's what makes him so charming. He doesn't like to be public, he doesn't like to compare with others, he only likes to do what he likes and live the life he wants. His low-key and humble attitude made me appreciate him more and also made me cherish our relationship even more.
When I go back to my parents' house for the Chinese New Year, although I sometimes feel embarrassed by the comparison and praise of my relatives, I always feel at ease with my husband's company. He doesn't need to be very good in front of everyone, he just needs to do what he likes and live the life he wants, and that's enough. His presence makes me feel grounded and warm, and it also makes me cherish our family even more.
So, dear husband, even if your personality is a little different, even if you are "different" in the eyes of everyone, I still love you deeply. Because your authenticity and low-key make me feel reassured and warm. I hope that we can always support each other, understand each other, and spend every good time together.
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