Changes in a woman's heart: three subtle signs
In this fast-paced society, people pursue loyal love and hope that it will accompany them for a lifetime. However, in reality, it is not easy to have loyal love. In stories of betrayal of love, people often think that men have an outside heart, but in fact women also behave in this way.
Whatever the reason, betrayal of love is an immoral and sad thing that destroys the equal relationship of love and triggers a love crisis. If one person blindly gives without expecting anything in return, the other person may develop the feeling that you are not important and thus not cherish you.
Therefore, both men and women should maintain self-esteem in love and avoid being too humble or unreciprocated. Experienced people advise: "Any relationship that appears outside the heart has traces to follow, but you may not be aware of it at the time." ”
Therefore, when a woman has these three subtle changes, it may be a signal that she has an "outer heart".
When you start to have some doubts about her life, she may no longer be as open to you as she used to. Your once honest and trusting relationship has faded, and she has begun to have her own secrets and has begun to find excuses to avoid your inquiries.
Even, when you say a word or two of concern, she will appear unusually sensitive, as if your words have poked her in the sore spot. All of this could be a sign that she has a "second heart" towards you, and you have to start thinking about whether your relationship is still as harmonious as it used to be.
Time is fair, everyone has only 24 hours a day. So, her time and energy are limited and she can't meet the needs of too many people at the same time. If there is a third person, then she will have to allocate part of her time and energy to take care of the other person, so that the time you will naturally be given will be reduced.
When you are in love, whether you are separated for a while or away for a while, you will miss each other so much that you can't extricate yourself and want to be with each other all the time. However, when a person's heart changes, the situation is completely different.
She will become colder and colder to you and give you less and less time. Don't listen to any excuses that she is busy with work and has no time, because when she is in love, she also has her own job.
Therefore, all this is caused by having an "outer heart", and the end of many loves is from such a beginning and gradually to the end. Therefore, we should not take it lightly and always be vigilant to detect and deal with problems in a timely manner.
You've been together for a few years, and you know each other well, and you know that the other person doesn't change their feelings for you because of their appearance. But lately, she has begun to groom herself frequently, smiling every time.
Although there is nothing wrong with pursuing beauty, if you pay too much attention or dress up suddenly becomes frequent, you have to be vigilant, maybe she is carefully dressing herself for a special person, after all, "women are the ones who please themselves".
Xiao Wang and his wife have been married for ten years and have a lovely son. They went from love to ordinary married life, although there were no big ups and downs, but the family was harmonious and full of happiness.
Xiao Wang worked hard, his wife took care of the family, and the children were successfully promoted to primary school. In the eyes of outsiders, they are a happy family. Xiao Wang is satisfied with this life, although he is not rich, he is known to be happy.
Recently, however, Xiao Wang found that his wife was a little unusual. My wife, who didn't pay much attention to dressing up in the past, suddenly bought a bunch of clothes and cosmetics. Xiao Wang once said that he liked her appearance without makeup, and his wife rarely wore makeup.
But recently, his wife began to learn makeup, carefully picking clothes every day, paying attention to matching, and even not letting Xiao Wang touch her mobile phone, she looked very nervous when she received the message. Xiao Wang was confused and asked his wife if there was anything wrong.
The wife was impatient, claiming that she just wanted to wear beautiful clothes, but was it wrong to dress pretty? Want to have your own life and privacy. Although Xiao Wang reluctantly accepted these explanations, the doubts in his heart still lingered.
So, on a sunny day, he decided to follow his wife. The result made Xiao Wang dumbfounded. It turned out that the wife was elaborately dressed up to date another man.
Many things can only be believed if you see them with your own eyes. Xiao Wang was no exception, although he had only doubts before, but what he saw made him believe this fact.
Love is private, when you love, it is clear and unmistakable, and when you don't love, it will always show in the details. When a woman has an "outer heart", no matter how she disguises it, it is difficult to hide the truth.
In the face of love, in the face of marriage, we should be sincere, should take responsibility, even if you no longer love, but also give the other party a clear answer, let him she understand your decision, and then you go to pursue your true destiny, your ideal life.
Life is short, only more than 30,000 days, everyone has the right to choose the life they want, but please don't hurt the people who love you.