I'd like to share with you some thoughts about your child's poor test scores and how we can help them through this time together.
First of all, I want to emphasize that test scores are not the only measure of a child's full worth. Every child is unique, and their value goes far beyond what a single test paper can show. Therefore, we should not unduly tie their value and ability to test scores.
Secondly, I understand that parents may feel anxious and disappointed when faced with unsatisfactory results. But, trust me, this is not the end of a child's failure, but the beginning of their learning and growth. What we need to do in this process is to give them enough understanding, encouragement and support, so that they know that we will always be there for them and help them overcome difficulties.
We can sit down with our children and talk honestly about their learning, identify possible problems and challenges, and work together to develop a plan for improvement. It is important for children to understand that failure is not scary, and that it is important to be able to learn from failures and keep improving.
When signing, I suggest that you express your understanding and support for your child so that they feel cared for and encouraged by their parents. We can write words of encouragement such as "Dear child, no matter what your grades are, we will always support you and help you achieve your dreams and goals" or "Every effort is a progress, let's work together for future success".
Finally, I would like to emphasize that the support and encouragement of parents is essential to a child's development. In the face of challenges and difficulties, they need not only help in their studies, but also the warmth and love of their families. Therefore, I hope that you will be able to spend this time with your children, face challenges together, and grow together.