"The Gate of the Mansion" is three times, revealing the secret of the old eunuch's second grandmother.
Bai Er's way of life is admired by people, and the secret is that she can always handle it properly, never go to extremes, and always maintain the golden mean. In fact, people often have a unique attachment to something, which is why many people are impressed by the wisdom of Grandma Bai Er.
For some reason, one day, you suddenly realize that you already have a deep affection for it. I think this is the biggest difference between humans and animals - the existence of emotions.
Many things should have been eliminated, but they were driven by emotions to continue to evolve. In recent years, I have always had the illusion that the domestic TV drama market is becoming more and more chaotic, and all kinds of inferior works are flooding our eyes.
Some classic works, although they gradually fade out of people's field of vision over time, are still active in the lives of the audience because of some people's nostalgia and persistence.
Just like when I watched "Mansion Gate" for the third time, I really understood why the elderly father-in-law Chang was the biggest backer of the second grandmother. Identity and status have played a crucial role for the Bai family.
Among domestic dramas, court dramas occupy an important position, and I believe many viewers have noticed a phenomenon. In any dynasty, as long as the monarch was in power, there was a group of people around him to serve, including handmaidens and eunuchs.
And among these minions, those eunuchs who have stayed with the monarch or dignitaries for the longest time are undoubtedly the most sought after existence.
In order to say good things for themselves from the emperor, the concubines in the court would often curry favor or stuff money into the old eunuchs, because they did not have the opportunity to communicate directly with the emperor.
As the imperial physician of the court, the Bai family often goes in and out of the palace, and it is inevitable that accidents will occur. The person who was originally close to the Bai family was not very father-in-law, but Wang Xiguang. The establishment of this relationship is called "being a person".
Although Wang likes to act a little unauthentically, the audience knows him as a person. After Bai Er's grandmother took charge, Wang liked to fall out of favor, and the position couldn't be empty all the time, otherwise if something really happened, there would not even be anyone to say good things for the Bai family.
Fortunately, he caught the line of Chang Gonggong, and even if Chang Gonggong occasionally said some good things, the situation of the Bai family improved.
Chang Gonggong's other identity is undoubtedly the most beneficial for the Bai family. He was in charge of managing medicines in the palace and had in-depth research on various medicinal materials. And the Bai family happens to run a medicinal herb business, and the two complement each other and are professionally counterpart.
This is why Chang Gonggong has doubts about medicinal materials in the newly opened Baicao Hall, and as an industry expert, he can tell at a glance whether the quality of medicinal materials is up to standard.
In interpersonal communication, it is very important to be the right-hand man of the leader, which requires comprehensive ability and the skill of reading people's faces. For example, Bai Er's grandmother, the reason for her success is that she is good at reading people's faces.
And smart people are one of the most liked people because they can understand and respond to problems quickly without much explanation.
Father-in-law Chang is such a person, who seems to have no desire or desire, but in fact he does not refuse to come, such a person is worthy of trust. Because they don't make people feel uneasy, but they make people feel reassuring.
It's called "win-win" and people like to work with people like that because they will make you feel at ease and that you'll get what you want.
The second grandmother is a smart person, and naturally understands that what Chang Gonggong wants is nothing more than wealth and material, so she directly gave Chang Gonggong a house and a beauty. Grandpa Chang's attitude towards the second grandmother is very positive, and the self-evident intelligence of the second grandmother makes Grandpa Chang very willing to help.
The second grandmother not only showed her wit at that time, but also always wanted Grandpa Chang to smile with expensive gifts when she needed Grandpa Chang's help in the future.
Although Chang Gonggong always said no, he never refused, in fact, he never refused, this is the sophistication of human feelings. Whenever you want someone to help, you have to show your sincerity, otherwise why would someone help you?
Whenever the audience sees the second grandmother stuffing something for Chang Grandpa, will they feel distressed? After all, that's really a "huge amount of money". The second grandmother herself is very aware of this, but for her, the things she wants her father-in-law to help with are undoubtedly of higher value to her.
Sharing is harvesting, this is the law of life. In cooperation, both parties can meet their respective wishes, and this is the cornerstone of the sustainable cooperation. Honesty and trustworthiness are the best ways to earn trust.
Whether it is business or cooperation, you need to pay attention to choosing the right person, otherwise, once you meet someone like Wang Xiguang who is greedy and lacks wisdom, the consequences will be unimaginable.
In relationships, the most taboo thing we have is to meet people who are dishonest, unfavorable, and bite back, because they can always make us live in panic, fearing that they will bring disaster to our plans.
However, Chang Gonggong is the opposite. When the Bai family had not yet proposed that he needed his help, he had already taken the initiative to favor the Bai family, which showed his clear understanding of good and bad right and wrong, and also proved his understanding and recognition of the Bai family, a moral and noble group.
Although the pressure exerted on him by Bai Er's grandmother was huge, Chang Gonggong always did his best to complete the tasks she assigned, which made people see real returns.
The Bai family's success in surviving the crisis this time is inseparable from the second grandmother's thoughtful and discerning judgment. Although she is a woman, when the Bai family is facing a crisis, she shows more responsibility and vision than many people.
Grandpa Chang was willing to associate with her because he knew that she was a very good person.
When the Bai family rises again, Grandma Bai will undoubtedly not forget his contribution. In fact, she also gave him his due reward after the Bai family was on the right track. In addition to giving away shares, the second grandmother also planned a bold move, that is, to make the interests of the Bai family and Chang Gonggong closely linked, just like people often say "interest binding".
Grandma Bai Er is indeed a very outstanding woman, she has foresight and courage, and she has contributed to the Bai family's comeback.