One day in October 2013, Ni Xiying's family in Nixia Village, Yujiang County, Jiangxi Province, welcomed a long-lost guest. That person's name is Ni Fasheng, and he used to be Ni Xiying's "deceased" husband for 10 years.
10 years ago, Ni Fasheng suddenly disappeared while working in Guangzhou, and there was no news, as if the world had evaporated. But now, just when Ni Xiying had just come out of the pain and started a new life, Ni Fasheng suddenly appeared.
He just said sorry, and he wanted to redeem his old relationship with Ni Xiying, repair his family relationship with his children, and try to seize the new house and family property.
When the "dead husband" who came back from the dead appeared, his return was full of absurdity and bizarreness. In this issue of the Historical Literature Society, we will delve into this incident and reveal the mystery of Ni Fasheng's disappearance and his attempt to succeed.
The answer to everything is in "The Return of the Dead Husband".
Faced with Ni Fasheng's accusations, Lao Feng was aggrieved and angry, and immediately refuted: "He (Ni Fasheng) is spewing blood, I am Ni Xiying's husband, how could I harm my wife, all this was caused by Ni Fasheng." ”
Lao Feng and Ni Xiying met in 2008. At that time, Lao Feng worked in a factory, while Ni Xiying worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant. Both have suffered emotional setbacks - Lao Feng has been unmarried and has a son after divorcing his ex-wife;And Ni Xiying raised a son and a daughter alone after her husband died.
Lao Feng said: "I felt at the time that the three of them were very pitiful. ”
Because of their similar experiences, Lao Feng and Ni Xiying developed a deep sympathy and understanding for each other. The two found resonance in their shared experience and came together naturally.
They held a grand wedding in the village and became husband and wife. It is worth mentioning that since they did not plan to have children and did not pay much attention to external things, they did not receive a marriage certificate.
However, this decision was later used by Ni Fasheng as a tool to attack them. In their married life, Lao Feng has always fulfilled his promise, and he wants Ni Xiying to live a better life.
He was very caring and considerate of her, and took the initiative to take on all the heavy work at home. He accompanied her to work, not only helped her pay off all her debts, but also built a small three-story house, and their life was full of love and happiness.
For Ni Xiying's children Xiaoting and Xiaoguo, Lao Feng also treats them as his own and cares about them very much. He always did his best to provide them with the best life and education to make their lives full of fatherly love.
Their future is full of hopes and dreams, and Lao Feng's meticulous care and concern make them feel the warmth of their father's love.
Xiaoting and Xiaoguo's evaluation of Lao Feng is positive, they think Lao Feng is a good person, teach them to be a person, and take care of them. In particular, Lao Feng, out of his kind nature and love for the house and Wu, provided Ni Fasheng's parents with a place to live, so that they could spend their old age in peace.
However, Lao Feng's kindness and dedication were not duly rewarded, and the two old men immediately turned their faces and denied anyone after their son returned, trying to kick Lao Feng out of the house. This makes people feel very regretful and emotional, and allows us to see the complexity of human nature and the warmth and coldness of the world.
Ni Fasheng's parents suddenly disappeared 10 years ago, leaving the world to think he had died. However, when he reappeared and accused his wife of a third party meddling, his wife, Ni Xiying, was devastated.
Although her husband "came back from the dead", she could not accept this sudden fact. When she saw Ni Fasheng again, her tears were not filled with excitement, sadness, or surprise, but with anger.
She recalled in her heart the events of 10 years ago and was very saddened by the disappearance of her husband.
After the Spring Festival in 2003, in order to build a new house, Ni Xiying handed over Xiaoting and Xiaoguo to her parents to take care of, and followed Ni Fasheng to work in Guangzhou. Unexpectedly, when they arrived in Guangzhou, it coincided with the first outbreak of the SARS epidemic in Guangzhou.
By the ninth day of the Lunar New Year, February 9, there were more than 100 confirmed cases. All of a sudden, people across the country were panicked, and everyone was in danger. Only one rumor without scientific basis, "smoking white vinegar and drinking banlang root can prevent SARS" triggered a rush to buy, resulting in several times the ** of these two items.
The epidemic has hit all walks of life, and Ni Xiying and Ni Fasheng, who are at the epicenter of the epidemic, are no exception, not only unemployed, but also depleted of savings. Faced with the dual pressure of the economy and the epidemic, Ni Xiying chose to go home and put her plan to make money to build a house on hold.
However, Ni Fasheng resolutely decided to stay in Guangzhou, believing that he could also achieve his goal of building a house. In desperation, Ni Xiying could only return to Jiangxi alone and separate from her husband.
However, at that time, mobile phones were still regarded as a luxury, and Ni Xiying could not contact her husband, so she could only wait silently. Time passed, but I never received news from my husband, as if the world had evaporated.
In the process of searching for the person, Ni Xiying and her sister Xiaoting adopted various methods. They asked their brother, who sells vegetables in Guangzhou, to help inquire, and they also added a lot of netizens with coordinates in Guangzhou on the Internet, hoping that they can ** search for people.
However, none of them were able to find any news of Ni Fasheng. During this period, Ni Xiying and Ni Fasheng had a very good relationship. However, in the face of her husband's disappearance, Ni Xiying felt very anxious and helpless.
She was afraid that her husband was in trouble outside, and even worried that he might die because of SARS. This worry and fear left her unable to eat or sleep.
Ni Xiying felt guilty that she had not been by her husband's side in the first place. She regretted not taking him home with her, nor did she accompany him through thick and thin. However, she was expecting that her husband might have just delayed contact due to some accident and would return home soon.
Every Spring Festival, Ni Xiying will cook a large table of her husband's favorite meals, and then look at the door stupidly. Her mother's depressed appearance made Xiaoting very distressed.
Xiaoting said: "On the day of the Chinese New Year, she said, I don't know if your father will come back this year, and then I asked every year, every year, and then I was desperate." ”
Ni Fasheng has been missing for many years, and everyone thinks he is no longer alive. For the sake of the child's growth, the family persuaded Ni Xiying to remarry, and the police at the police station also thought that he had died.
Under such pressure, Ni Xiying reluctantly accepted the reality of her husband's death, raised her children strongly, and won everyone's respect. It wasn't until she met Lao Feng 5 years later that she got out of her pain and started a new life.
However, when Ni Fasheng suddenly returns, she is surprised to find that the pain and suffering she has endured all this time is a big joke - her husband has not died, but he is unwilling to go home.
Ni Xiying is an honest, diligent and kind woman who raises her children alone and does her best. Even if she remarried, she was still filial to her "deceased husband's" parents.
Despite such a blow, she remained strong and continued to fight for her family and children.
Ni Xiying and her two children have experienced an unbearable past, but when they thought they had let go, they faced Ni Fasheng who "came back from the dead" again. In the face of him, Ni Xiying showed the most terrifying side, picked up a stick to block in front of him, and resolutely refused to give in.
She rebuked him hoarsely, saying, "You have killed half my life." Ni Fasheng's lies and irresponsibility made Xiaoting and Xiaoguo lose their father's company since they were young, which filled her with anger and hatred.
She hated his disappearance, hated his irresponsibility, hated his attempts to destroy her happiness. What she hates the most is his indifference and disregard for his two children, which makes them feel the pain of missing their father's love since they were young.
Xiaoguo even blamed him indignantly, saying: "It's him, let my mother live so hard alone, let me and my sister be looked down upon by others at school, saying that we don't have a father." ”
This experience will never be forgotten by Ni Xiying and her children, and her heart is full of anger and hatred, looking forward to the day when she can get rid of the shadow of this past.
I think he came back to lie. Do I want to make tens of millions of dollars and not make them, so I can leave my family alone and not go home? ”
A man's conscience can be seen from what he has done. When he chooses to run away from home when you and your children need him the most, and then walk away, then this person, what else can you expect from him?
He may have promised countless "forevers" to the women outside, but these promises are just empty for you and the child. Because the "forever" in his mouth has become "never coming back" when you and your children need him the most.
When he is abandoned by the woman outside, and then runs back in a gray way, wanting to find you to "make amends", will you still believe him? Will you ever forgive him? What he has done has made him lose his most basic dignity as a man.
What he has done has made you and your children lose the most basic support. So, whether his "knowing that he is wrong and wanting to make amends" is true or false, you should let him bear the consequences.
Because, what he has done in the past has disqualified him to get your forgiveness and forgiveness.
Facts have proved that Ni Fasheng's true face has been revealed. "When I first saw my new house, I burst into tears of joy," he said. Although he verbally said that he was sorry for his parents, wife and children, and that he had not fulfilled his responsibilities as a father and husband, all he could think about was the newly built three-story house.
To what extent did he crave it? When Ni Xiying officially filed for divorce, Ni Fasheng tried to get back together with her, he did not fight for the custody of the child, but directly proposed: "Divorce is okay, but the house must belong to me, and I am still the owner of this house." ”
Ni Fasheng's request made Ni Xiying cry and laugh. In 2003, they went out to work to earn money to build a house. In other words, when Ni Fasheng disappeared, they didn't even have a single brick ready.
When Ni Xiying mistakenly thought that her husband was no longer alive, in order to fulfill her husband's last wish, she borrowed 30,000 yuan, plus the family's meager savings, and built the first bungalow with difficulty.
The construction of the second and third floors was built by Ni Xiying and Lao Feng after they got married, and the husband and wife worked together and worked hard, and gradually invested more than 100,000 yuan to build it bit by bit.
Ni Xiying has worked for many years to pay off debts, save money and frugality, and has been severely malnourished due to long-term fatigue. She sued the court for divorce, asking to dissolve the relationship with Ni Fasheng, hoping to monopolize the new house.
Although Ni Fasheng gave her financial support during the construction of the house, he may not even be able to cover the child support he owes, and Ni Xiying and Lao Feng paid more. However, Ni Fasheng relied on the fact that he and Ni Xiying did not officially divorce and tried to monopolize the new house, which is very shameless.
Although Ni Fasheng has a lot of mistakes, in law, before the dissolution of the relationship between husband and wife, the house belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife, and he should have a share.
On November 10, 2013, the court ruled that Ni Xiying and Ni Fasheng were allowed to divorce, and the property was half per person (Ni Xiying was a little more), and Ni Xiying was raised by Ni Xiying in a small country, and Ni Fasheng had to pay 214 yuan per month in child support.
This result is not fair to many people, Ni Fasheng, as a son, husband and father, has not returned home for 10 years, not even a **, no letters, so ruthless, it is difficult to explain with the so-called "good face".