In a seemingly mundane marriage story,The turning point in Li Yufan's life turned out to be a "rich" decision before marriage. The young man, who is nearly 40 years old, met his fiancée in college, and it was not until a year before the wedding that he unveiled the mystery of his fiancée's "factory at home". This scene can't help but remind me of those confusing family plots in TV dramas.
The form of marriage in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai seems to have always been different from the norm. Recruit a son-in-law,Become a unique way of marriage in this land. In this economically booming region,The concept of family ownership of property is deeply ingrained. Traditional marriage can no longer satisfy those wealthy families, and they are more inclined to recruit sons-in-law, not only because of the need for old age, but also because they are reluctant to marry their daughters far away. In this case, the woman's family seems to have a stronger voice.
Li Yufan faced many obstacles from his fiancée's familyBut they eventually decided to break through everythingEntered the palace of marriage. Career also seems to be smooth sailingFrom Big Tech to working in Africa to his wife's hometown,Li Yufan's life seems to be on the right track. With the arrival of the child, his life becomes complicated.
This rich man,should have lived a happy and fulfilling life. With well-paying jobs, luxury vehicles and villas, everything seems perfect. Life after marriage is not satisfactory. Busy at work,Frequent socialization,made his relationship with his wife drift apart. His wife complained that he didn't care about the children, and he thought he had done his duty. This psychological imbalance gradually evolved into a burnout of marriage.
And the problems after marriage don't stop there. His wife's attitude towards his parents made him feel pressured. Going home to visit her parents has become a luxury, and the youngest daughter's miss of her grandparents makes him even more helpless. The parents-in-law's proposal to take over the family business put him in a dilemma. A poorly run family business, he doesn't want to be reduced to another "gatekeeper". And the marriage crisis of the parents-in-law,It has become a boulder in his heartHe doesn't want to be trapped in the cage of his family like his father-in-law.
This story seems to tell the story of the difficulties of marriage. Behind the glamorous appearance, there are countless contradictions and problems. The economic basis determines the marital relationship, and the power structure is quietly formed in the marriage. Those men who are in the redundancy,Despite material affluence, the soul is becoming more and more barren. The ten-year itch of marriage,It is not only a test of career, but also a tempering of feelings.
This is not an isolated case. Stories like this are all around us. Marriage,It is no longer a simple collision of two hearts, but an intricate interweaving of economy, family, and career. Separation seems to have become a compromise optionIn order to avoid complicated property disputes,The two families put aside their contradictions for the time being.
The ending of the story is not perfect,It seems to be a portrayal of the reality of marriage. Maybe it's just such a storyIt gives us a deeper understanding of the complexities of marriage. Perhaps in the process, we can find a better solution to the marriage so that the love can still last.
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