Marriage is a great joy in life, however, at a wedding in Langfang, Hebei, something ridiculous happened. Two men blocked the wedding car at 4 a.m. and asked for 10 wedding cigarettes when they opened their mouths, what the hell is going on? Listen to me slowly.
On that day, the groom took the groomsmen to get into the wedding car and happily marry the bride. Along the way, they were still looking forward to a happy life in the future, but they didn't expect that when the car drove to a village, it was suddenly blocked by two cars. This time, the groom and the groomsmen were stunned. What is this for? Could it be that someone is coming to rob the relatives?
I saw two men get out of the car, walk to the wedding car, and without saying a word, ask for 10 cigarettes. The groom and groomsmen saw that they were here to "please the lottery"! I thought, give a few cigarettes, and be happy, it's nothing. So the bridegroom took out 4 cigarettes and gave them them. Unexpectedly, the two men were not satisfied, and insisted on 10. This can make the groom and groomsmen angry.
At this time, the people around couldn't stand it anymore, and persuaded the two men one after another: "One person and two are not enough? It's almost there! But the two men were unmoved, and said that two cigarettes were not enough, and that 10 were necessary. This can exhaust the patience of the newlyweds and other relatives and friends. They no longer backed down and stood firmly beside the car, demanding that the man move the vehicle and return the cigarette.
After this incident was spread on the Internet, it caused heated discussions among netizens. Some netizens said: "This is 'begging for luck', it is clearly 'robbing while the fire is burning'!" Some netizens also said: "What kind of custom is this? It's too much! Some netizens said: "Why don't you call the police?" Isn't this blackmail? ”
The local police station also responded to this incident. They say it's a custom, get married with some joy, ask for cigarettes and sugar, but 10 is a bit too much. Since it was not a request for money, the police station could only coordinate.
Seeing this, I can't help but ask: Is this kind of marriage custom really good? Originally to add to the festive atmosphere, the "begging for money" has now become an excuse for some people to ask for money unreasonably, and even evolved into a farce of "robbing while the fire is burning". Such behavior not only makes newcomers feel embarrassed and helpless, but also has a negative impact on the social atmosphere.
Weddings are supposed to be beautiful and warm moments, and should not be ruined by some unreasonable wedding troubles. We should respect the original intent of the wedding so that the couple can spend this special moment in a harmonious and civilized environment.
For such a marriage, we can't laugh it off, but we should pay attention to it. Relevant departments can strengthen the management and guidance of marriage troubles, so that people can understand what is a reasonable "pleading" and what is excessive demand. At the same time, couples can also communicate with relatives and friends before the wedding to make it clear that they do not want excessive marital troubles.
Let's work together to bring the wedding back to beauty and warmth, and let those unreasonable wedding customs become history!