That day, I went to the homeroom teacher's office to find her, and I was going to ask her some questions about studying. When I walked in the door, I saw that she was looking intently at her phone with a thoughtful expression.
Teacher, I have a question for you. I said politely.
She looked up, smiled and said to me, "Come on, what's the matter?" ”
I consulted her about my study confusion, and she listened carefully to my questions and patiently gave me guidance and advice.
Thank you, teacher. I said gratefully.
She smiled and shook her head: "You're welcome, you have to work hard and don't be afraid of difficulties." ”
I left the office and returned to my seat in a happy mood. This learning experience gave me a deeper understanding of learning, and I was also full of respect and gratitude to the class teacher.
After we got married, my wife and I had a happy life, but the conflict between my wife and her mother puzzled me.
But after receiving the money, my mother-in-law gave me a message: "Your brother bought a car for 200,000 yuan, don't fool me with 2,000." "This made me very embarrassed, obviously out of good intentions, but it caused my mother-in-law's dissatisfaction.
My wife explained to me that my mother-in-law had a recent dispute with my brother-in-law, who had been blamed by her for a long time for buying a car, and that this time I transferred 2,000 yuan that might cause more misunderstandings.
While blaming myself in my heart for not acting rashly, I also felt that my mother-in-law was making a fuss.
The mother-in-law replied: "It's not a matter of money, I'm worried that you don't know how to take care of the family, and you don't want you to take care of the affairs of my uncle and me."
This made me even more embarrassed, I wasn't a person who didn't know how to take care of my family, and I just wanted to be able to help a little.
My wife and I exchanged opinions, and she advised me to accommodate, but I couldn't let go.
I knew that this shouldn't just be left alone, and I needed to find a way to fix it. But I couldn't do anything about it.
It got me struggling.
My wife's cell phone rang, and after she picked it up, her face gradually became nervous. After hanging up**, she told me in an anxious tone, saying that her mother asked her to transfer 200,000 yuan to her brother on the grounds that his brother wanted to buy a car.
Because my wife and I had just raised money for a down payment on a new house and didn't have any extra money. I firmly told my wife that this time we couldn't afford to mess up the family's car purchase.
It was a very difficult choice for her. We are struggling with this dilemma, and arguing will not solve the problem, it will only make the situation worse.
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For a long time, my wife and I lived together and enjoyed a peaceful and happy life. Recently, however, an annoying quarrel broke out in our house.
But my mother seems to have misunderstood, thinking that she rarely transfers money to the family, and she is very angry. She said: "Your brother bought a car for 200,000 yuan, and you are not willing to give us even a little money?" My wife explained, "No, Mom, I've always kept my salary card for you."
So, I thought about asking my wife to transfer 2,000 yuan to my mother-in-law with her mobile phone, and I always felt that I could alleviate the conflict.
But unexpectedly, this transfer instead provoked a bigger dispute. After receiving the money, my mother-in-law was very angry, she said: "Your brother bought a car for 200,000 yuan, and you transferred the 2,000 yuan to me, do you want to use this money to fool me?" My wife hurriedly explained, "Mom, I really don't mean anything else."
I felt helpless. I was trying to solve the problem, but it made it worse. This makes the situation even more awkward.
There seemed to be an unbreakable tension throughout the family.
I was torn between this family conflict, and I kept trying to persuade my wife and mother-in-law to communicate, but it didn't seem to have much effect.
I was worried that this incident would have a profound impact on our family, but I didn't know how to find a way to resolve the dispute.
I know that this is not a simple issue, but I still cherish my love for my family and loved ones, and I hope that one day this dispute will be resolved.