Reading guide:Hello everyone, I'm Sister Seven, a blogger who is good at horoscope numerology. Turning over old accounts is a common trick used by many people when they quarrel. However, this kind of behavior often exacerbates the conflict and even leads to the breakdown of the relationship. Among the zodiac signs, there are three zodiac signs that will start turning over old accounts once they quarrel, and they are Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces.
1. Cancer: It's hard to let go of old love
Cancerians are delicate and emotional. They are very nostalgic and always have a hard time letting go of what happened in the past. Once they quarrel with their lover, Cancerians will start to turn over old accounts and tell them one by one about the wrong things that their lovers have done in the past, as a way to prove that their lover is not good to them.
Cancerians do this not to get revenge on their lovers, but because they really can't forget the hurt they have suffered in the past. They hope to make their lovers realize their mistakes by turning over old accounts, and in this way, they can make up for the damage they have suffered.
Cancerians tend to turn over old accounts in a way that is counterproductive. Lovers will not only not realize their mistakes, but will perceive the Cancer man as stingy and calculating. In this way, the conflict will be further intensified, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
2. Scorpio: Love and hate are clear, and they will be reciprocated
Scorpios have a clear distinction between love and hate, they can pour out their hearts and lungs to those they like, but they will show no mercy to those they hate. Once a Scorpio person quarrels with a lover, they will start to turn over old accounts, remember the wrong things that their lover has done one by one, and then wait for an opportunity to take revenge.
Scorpios turn over old accounts, not to make their lover repent, but to take revenge on the lover for the harm he once did to himself. They hope that by turning over old accounts, the lovers will taste the same pain.
The Scorpio's behavior of turning over old accounts often makes lovers feel suffocated. Lovers will not only not repent of their mistakes, but will feel that Scorpios are narrow-minded and will be revenged. In this way, the conflict will be further intensified, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
3. Pisces : soft-hearted and soft-hearted
Pisces people are delicate and emotional. They are easily touched and easily soft-hearted. Once they quarrel with their lover, Pisces people will start to turn over old accounts and tell them one by one about the good things that their lover has done, as a way to prove that their lover is good to them.
Pisces people do this, not to move their lovers, but because they really can't bear to hurt their lovers. They hope to make their lovers realize that they are good to themselves by turning over old accounts, and in this way, they can make up for the harm they have done to their lovers.
The Pisces' behavior of turning over old accounts tends to stress lovers. Lovers will not only not be moved, but will feel that Pisces people are too clingy and dependent on themselves. In this way, the conflict will be further intensified, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
4. Taurus: stubborn and unwilling to back down
Taurus people are stubborn and refuse to back down. Once they quarrel with their lover, Taurus people will start to turn over old accounts and tell them about the wrong things that their lover has done one by one, as a way to prove that their lover is not good to them.
Taurus people turn over old accounts, not to get revenge on their lovers, but to prove themselves right. They hope that by turning over old accounts, the lover will realize his mistake and use this to persuade the lover to apologize to him.
Taurus's behavior of turning over old accounts tends to make lovers angry. Lovers will not only not realize their mistakes, but will find Taurus people unreasonable and unreasonable. In this way, the conflict will be further intensified, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
How to deal with lovers who turn over old accounts?
Admit your mistake and sincerely apologize.
If you really do something wrong in a fight, then you should admit your mistake and sincerely apologize. Don't try to quibble or justify yourself, that will only exacerbate the conflict.
Don't dig through old accounts and return a tooth for a tooth.
When a lover turns over old accounts, don't retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, and don't try to dig out your lover's old accounts to fight back. This will only exacerbate the conflict and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
Learn to communicate and solve problems.
Quarrels are one way to communicate problems, but they are not the only way to solve them. If you want to solve a problem, you should learn to communicate. Tell your lover about your thoughts and feelings, listen to your lover's thoughts and feelings, and then find a solution to the problem together.
Learn to be tolerant, learn to forgive.
If you want to be with your lover for a long time, you should learn to be tolerant and forgiving. Be tolerant of your lover's mistakes and forgive your lover's hurt. Only in this way can you work together and be happy.
Turning over old accounts is a very emotionally hurtful act. If you don't want to hurt your lover, then don't turn over old accounts when you quarrel. Learning to communicate, learning to be tolerant, and learning to forgive are the long-term solutions to maintain relationships.