Why do women become very nagging, nagging women seem to be very annoying, but their "boredom" reveals the ordinary and great, they are very responsible, delicate and strong in their hearts, and have strong execution, which is the "obsessive-compulsive disorder" in the eyes of their husbands and children.
Nagging women are also usually toiling for their lives. They love their families and children very much, but they don't have time to love themselves. Their nagging is caused by too much concern, too much love for their husbands, too much love for their children, and too much force.
However, they are kind-hearted and strong-hearted, and they are strong women, not resentful women. In fact, the nagging that a woman becomes is related to her own character, family and husband. Most of the summaries are a few points.
The husband I met had no sense of responsibility and responsibility
Summing up a lot of families, there are a lot of such women. They all have a husband behind them who has no sense of responsibility and responsibility. It is often said that men are the backbone of the family, and in a family, husband and wife are responsible for their own responsibilities, and the more love and responsibility a man gives to a woman, the happier a woman will be.
In a family, if a man does not have a sense of responsibility and responsibility, always wants to escape from reality when encountering things, does not want to care too much, and does not want to worry too much, the woman will definitely have a very difficult life.
They not only have to deal with the big and small things of the family, but also educate their children well, just like the leader of a team, the head teacher of a class, they are bound to worry a lot of hearts and say a lot of things, often the person who talks more in the family, especially women, they are more delicate, and they are often regarded as very nagging.
In the family, if the man is responsible and responsible, they will share half or even most of the family, and the woman will not become so nagging. Home needs two people to form and share together, and marriage is two people working together to manage, so that they can get along more harmoniously, be happier, and grow old together.
Some men are a caring and considerate man before marriage, and after marriage, they first hand over the money to the woman, and the woman is his bank self-service access machine, and then hand over all matters to the woman.
When women are overwhelmed by the trivial things of life, and the heart that has been broken is about to collapse, as men, not only do they not feel sorry for women, but the nagging has also become all kinds of boredom in the eyes of men.
Too strong
Some women always like to manage too much after starting a family, and they belong to the stronger kind. is also because you love me, you have to listen to me, so, whether it is right or wrong, everything in the family is up to her. If you don't listen and don't tolerate me, you will nag you and annoy you, and if you are annoyed, you will follow me.
This kind of woman who is too strong makes men have no freedom, can't tolerate men to have the slightest assertiveness, and belongs to the domineering president type, and men can only grovel in front of her and make compromises.
This kind of woman is also very strong in educating children. What she says, the child must obey her arrangement, what clothes the child wears, what food to eat, what friends to make, what school to go to, what work to do, from the birth of the child to the child's school, work, love, marriage are all up to her.
This kind of woman who is used to being strong, over time, will get used to nagging, and most of the men who love him will get used to it, rather than get tired of it.
Their own superficial ignorance
There is a kind of women who like to nag, not because they are too strong, not because men are not responsible and have no sense of responsibility, but because they are superficial and ignorant.
This kind of woman's ideological understanding has never kept up with the times, and she still belongs to the nosy kind. When her husband communicates with her about something, she always talks about other things that are not important, and it is difficult for her husband to communicate with her in a simple and easy way, which eventually leads to the communication turning into an argument.
Their superficiality and ignorance, and their inability to guide their children correctly in educating them, make the man who loves her very tired and broken.
This kind of superficial, nagging type of woman will make a man gradually move from loving her to getting tired of it, or even running away.
A life of poverty
Sometimes what crushes a woman may be a poor and frugal life. In front of love and bread, sometimes you can't have both, especially a woman who is carried away by love, preferring to have love first, and bread later. After the shelf life of love has passed, you will face the real life of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea.
At this time, facing the birth of a child, various pressures of life will make a woman become a very hard-working housewife. And with that comes frugality.
It's not that women like to be frugal, but they are forced by love and life without an economic foundation.
At this time, for the sake of the family and children, a woman needs to understand and support her husband who is working hard to make money. Nagging and complaining are also common.
It's not that women are born to like nagging, most of them are related to their character, family, and their own family and the men around them, but most of their nagging will become disliked by their families, indifferent, indifferent and a reason to complain.