Hou BaolinSir'sMarriageThe experience was colorful and attracted the attention of a cross talk blogger. The blogger questionedHou ZhenThe identity of the "eldest son and eldest grandson", saidHou ZhenfatherHou YaozhongActually, it should beHou Baolinof illegitimate children. However, we cannot use modern legal and moral standards to measure the entertainers of the old society. Hou BaolinofMarriageNot according to modern conventions, he successively with Lian Xiuzhen,Liu Shufang, Wang Yalan and other women are married and have children. MarriageThe complexity and diversity of the society was not uncommon in the society of the time, so rightHou BaolinofMarriageIt is inappropriate to question the state. Hou BaolinHe had seven children, one of whom died in infancy. Each child grows up in a different environment, and their identity and status do not depend on whether they are legitimate or not.
Extension: Old SocietyMarriageThe concept is different from the modern one, and people are interested inMarriageThere are different understandings of attitudes and forms. Hou BaolinAs an artist, he has encountered various ** and difficulties in his careerMarriageExperiences are also varied because of this. He is with Lian Xiuzhen'sMarriageUnfortunately, they encountered various problems that eventually led to their divorce. And withLiu Shufangof cohabitation and Wang Yalan'sMarriageIt took place at different stages of life, and while it was not in line with traditional notions, it was seen as a free choice at the time. Hou BaolinAs a result, their children have a variety of identities, grow up in their own way, and make their own contributions to society.
Except for the pairHou ZhenIn addition to questioning the identity of the "eldest son and eldest grandson", the blogger also pointed outGuo DegangMisappelledHou ZhenforHou Baolinof the "eldest son and eldest grandson", in fact, this is a blowHou Yaowenreputation. Hou YaowenYesHou BaolinThe son born to Mr. and Wang Yalan, if it is followedGuo DegangThe salutation, thenHou YaowenThe status will be severely reduced. The blogger points out that ifHou YaowenStill alive, he'll be rightGuo Degangsaid that he was outraged.
The blogger also mentions a possible scenario, namelyGuo DegangSalutationHou ZhenFor the "eldest son and eldest grandson" is for suppressionHou Yaohuastatus. However,Hou YaohuawithHou Yaowenis a half-brother, ifHou ZhenRegarded as the "eldest son and eldest grandson", thenHou YaohuawithHou Yaowenwill be considered an "illegitimate child". This statement is unjust and trueHou Yaowenof disrespect.
Bloggers think,Guo DegangEmphasisHou ZhenYesHou Baolinof the "eldest son and eldest grandson" andSun YueYesLi Wenhua's grandson, on the one hand, is to flaunt the inheritance and strength of Deyun Society, and on the other hand, it is also a bluff. However, actuallyHou ZhenwithSun YueThere are certain problems with identity.
ForHou ZhenThe blogger believes that "eldest son and eldest grandson" is an outdated concept, and there is no such difference between a son-in-law and a concubine in modern society. Illegitimate and legitimate children have the same inheritance rights and social status. Therefore, it is not important whether they are called "eldest sons and grandchildren" or not, but more important is the individual's ability and character.
AboutSun YueThe blogger notes that he is notLi Wenhua, but his father's uncle. The two families are not close by blood, and their interactions with each other are very limited. Therefore,Guo DegangElevateSun Yueidentity is a false exaggeration.
The blogger believes that some of the feudal ideas and customs of the old society are outdated and not worth mentioning anymore. Modern society no longer has the idea of primogeniture and grandchildren and other notions of identity and status determined by blood relations. Each person's identity and status should be determined by their own efforts and abilities, not by birth and blood.
The blogger's article may be too one-sided and unjust in questioning Hou Baolin's marriage and children. Every family andMarriageAll have their own special circumstances and backgrounds, and we cannot simply judge the old society by modern standards and conceptsMarriageand child status. More importantly, we should respect everyone's efforts and achievements, rather than imposing outdated ideas and customs on them.