The Spring Festival is approaching, and romance has become a topic of concern for everyone. On the way to pursue and go on blind dates, men often fall on the skills of chatting. Women, on the other hand, have zero tolerance for some specific ways of chatting.
I once met an unbelievable young man who chatted in a way that was laughable. When pursuing girls, he always doesn't say a word, as if he is a taciturn hero. The girl asked him how he was eating, and he only replied with an "um"; asked about the new movie, and he came with another "no". This one-word response chat is like cold ice and snow water, making the girl feel like she is talking to an iceberg.
During the Spring Festival, if you have a blind date plan, or are pursuing a girl you like, you must pay attention to the most hated way of chatting with women. First and foremost is the trap of "one-word response". Women need not just an indifferent "um" or "no", but real communication and a feeling of being valued.
Sometimes, a man's pursuit of a woman becomes a rush for quick success, like digging for a treasure, only to find it when he misses it. Being too impatient often leads to the other party's vigilance, especially if you ask too much about the past, which will make the woman feel violated.
When chatting during the Chinese New Year, a sensible and calm attitude is very important. Understanding a woman's mind and showing a gentlemanly demeanor is an effective way to open her heart. Chat to be moderate, to understand slowly, not after all.
Another woman's most annoying way to chat is to show off too much. Some men may become exaggerated during the Chinese New Year, boasting about their achievements while ignoring that women value quality and character more. Excessive narcissism will only make a woman feel that the other party is immature and undecided.
In chatting during the Spring Festival, learn to grasp the sense of proportion and don't let yourself become a narcissist. Women care more about who you are than what house you buy or what car you drive. Be authentic and make yourself a trustworthy companion.
Have a good chat and don't make the woman feel bored or ignored. In this Spring Festival, communicate with your heart, so that your feelings burst out with different sparks in the warmth of chatting.
On the long road of feelings, having a good chat is only the tip of the iceberg. During the Spring Festival, in addition to avoiding annoying chats, it is also important to pay attention to details and care. Giving a thoughtful gift or preparing a well-prepared meal for the other person is an effective way to express emotion. Remember, on this special occasion, it's far more important to communicate than to rhetoric.
Not only that, but it's also crucial to show understanding and respect for women in a timely manner when chatting. Try sharing some light-hearted and humorous stories to keep the atmosphere light-hearted and lively. Use some clever and witty ways to make the conversation more interesting. At the same time, don't forget to express your concern for her with greetings, the key is to be sincere and not pretentious.
In addition, Chinese New Year is a time of reunion, and you can express your feelings of missing your family through chatting. Sharing some funny family stories or some fond memories can bring each other closer together. Making her feel that you value your family will make you occupy a more important place in her heart.
Finally, remember to be real in your chats and don't pander or pretend to be subtle. Sincerity is the biggest trojan horse that impresses women, and they tend to feel the true emotions of the other person keenly. Chat with your heart, show your true side, and let the other party know and like you more deeply.
In this Spring Festival, let chat become a bridge between each other's hearts, and let feelings thrive in sincere and pleasant conversations. Manage every moment with heart and create your own romantic story.