What can I do, don't I want to live a better life? I can't change it, I can only repeat such bad days day after day. ”
I don't know if you have heard the same complaints and complaints?
I've heard it, and I've even thought it this way on my worst days.
But on the worst days, the last thing we should do is to give up on ourselves, complaining and complaining will not really solve the problem, but will waste our attention, energy and time in endless depression.
When we encounter problems, how we choose is very important.
Do I choose to solve the problem, find the cause, find the method, find the resource" or "I choose to avoid the problem, complain about the problem, complain about the problem"?
Many people say they can't save money all year round.
But when I opened the wardrobe and makeup box, there were a lot of clothes, bags, shoes, makeup and skin care products, and many of them even had not even opened the tags, and they were all expired and unopened.
At this time, can you solve the problem of not being able to save money for a year by avoiding these problems and complaining about these problems?
No. At this time, we should think: how did the money come from?
The first is to earn; The second is to rely on reasonable and planned flowers and provinces.
Therefore, when we encounter problems, we should find the causes, find solutions, find resources to solve them, and make effective use of our time and energy, which is the key to changing our actual situation.
Which is easier, to change yourself or to change others?
Needless to say, it's definitely easier to change yourself.
If we are accustomed to putting our sustenance on the changes of others, then there is a high probability that this sustenance will become a shackle that hinders our own rebirth.
Change must be self-driven to achieve the desired effect.
A person does not want to change himself, no matter how hard others try, he will still go his own way.
Because of habit.
Just like a gambler, if he doesn't realize that his habit is harmful to others and himself, then his life will be a repeat of his past failures.
Two days ago, revisiting "All or Nothing", I really sighed that the weakness of human nature, the complexity of the world, and stories and accidents really happen all the time.
Every time I read a book, watch a TV movie, or watch a little, in every little story or fragment, I can always inadvertently remind myself that I must not learn those bad habits, and I must learn more from excellent people and excellent habits and morals.
Because all happiness and good luck come from the accumulation of good habits in daily life.
Cause and effect are nothing but "my choice" in the past and present lives.
I choose, "Cause, and that's the result."
I choose "effect" because of this cause.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program