What do you think of today's hot spots
In my impression, the day close to the Spring Festival is the day of the debt, and the creditor will generally come to the door at this time to "settle", but there is a detail to pay attention to, if the Spring Festival couplets of this house have been pasted, the creditor will turn around and leave, it is said that this is handed down by the older generation, and the specific reason is not clear.
Speaking of asking for debts, I can't help but sigh with emotion, alas, now those who owe money are uncles, and those who ask for money are grandchildren!
So, generally I don't borrow money, and I don't lend money to others, in fact, the most important thing is that I don't have any money myself, it's good to be self-sufficient, how can I have spare money to lend to others!
Here's a story about a friend around me, every time he drank too much, he would shed tears at the end, and after listening to it so many times, I was about to memorize it!
My friend and his daughter-in-law are all in the system, with a fixed monthly salary, and they can't afford to be hungry, and they have a slight surplus every month. A good friend of a friend, who does a small business, has a good income, has good food, clothing, housing and transportation at home, and usually gets along well with friends.
In the first year of the epidemic, it had a big impact on the small business, and then he began to borrow money from friends around him to tide over the difficulties.
This friend's small business finally survived, and there was a small outbreak in the first half of last year, in fact, at the beginning, he and his friends didn't know about the "small outbreak", they have been together for many years, they won't talk about work or business, and those who do business generally don't say that they make a lot of money, and they will be very modest to say that they eat with their mouths.
How can there be an impermeable wall in the world, and later learned from others that the friend who borrowed money changed the car for his daughter-in-law, which is a good kind, and the daughter-in-law of these friends is basically WeChat friends, and the circle of friends is a good place, brand-name bags, cosmetics or something, women will talk to their own family when they see these circle of friends.
These friends slowly became calm, and when they chatted later, they basically lent money to others behind their wives, basically 20,000 or 30,000 yuan per person, and the most 50,000 yuan. The guy who borrowed the money, as always, got together with his friends and chatted, but he didn't mention the matter of repaying the money!
After a long time, these friends met to talk about this, and finally one day my friend (the more straightforward kind) asked his friend privately.
Friend: How's the business?
A: Okay!
Friend: If you have a lot of money, give him some of the money that Xinjian lent you, he may need it!
A: Oh, why didn't he tell me himself, and he had to let you say it?
Friend: I'm sorry!
Two months later, this guy still hasn't paid back the money, and his daughter-in-law's circle of friends is still beautiful!
Slowly, Xinjian no longer participated in the party of the person who did business, and later learned that the process of asking for money in Xinjian was very tortuous, and it was very bad, and then every time Xinjian drank with friends, he would scold himself and say that he had added to himself, and that's it!
In the end, my friend became a "wicked person", because he was the boss of his group of friends, and he talked to the business guy, and the last paragraph he said was very good: people are not stupid, when you are in difficulty, people can help, this is righteousness, it is emotional, you can't say anything if you don't help you, there are many people who don't help money, why don't you think about paying back the money first when you make money? The car can be changed many times, friends, fraternal friends, if you get hurt once, there will be no more!
The next day, the business fellow paid both the principal and interest to his friends, but he hadn't been to the party since, for whatever reason.
Two days ago, I met a friend and asked if there was a party for the Chinese New Year this year? Friends said that gathering is necessary to gather, and people are estimated to be unable to gather!