Is the child upset and annoyed?
It's okay, understand a little bit of children's psychology.
Children between the ages of 3 and 6 have three basic psychological characteristics.
Recognize the specific image of the event
Children aged 3-6 mainly perceive and rely on appearances to understand things, and the appearance of specific images affects the entire cognitive process of children, and even children's thinking activities are often difficult to get rid of the shackles of perceptual impressions.
For example, if we give the child two rows of equal number of pieces, if they are arranged at equal distances, the child will know that there are two equal numbers in the two rows.
But if one of the rows of pieces is clustered together, many children will think that the row that is closely packed is less numerous, because the row is shorter than the sparse row.
It can be seen that children's identification of the number is affected by the arrangement of chess pieces.
This illustratesChildren's thinking is mainly characterized by the specific image of things, and the specific image affects the entire cognitive process of the child
Psychobehavioral instability
Children aged 3-6 years still have a weak ability to control and regulate their mental activities and behaviors, and are easily influenced by other things to change their activity mode or direction, so their actions show great instability.
Some parents are very helpless, the child was shouting to take him out to play with children, but after he went out, he may see a puppy on the side of the road, and he is interested in puppies, so he has been playing with puppies.
When he remembered it again, he was anxious with his parents: "Why don't you take me to play with the children?" "Crying and fussing.
Actually, this is the childPsychological unconsciousness, behavioral instabilityThe embodiment of the .
However, we don't have to worry too much.
As he grows older, this situation will gradually improve, and the child will become more and more clear about what he wants to do and the direction of his activities, and more and more purposeful.
Formation of initial personality tendencies
As the saying goes, "Three years old is big, seven years old is old." ”
Before the age of three, children already have personality traits, but these traits are not stable and are easily changed by external influences.
After the age of three, children begin to show their own unique tendencies in terms of hobbies, behavioral habits, talents, and attitudes towards others.
Is the child extroverted or introverted? Is it neat or grinding? Is the energy exuberant or quiet?
Personality tendencies at this time, even if they change, have become the basis of a child's personality throughout his life