Children do not take the initiative to learn, nor do they think positively, and are easily attracted to other things, this situation should indeed attract the attention of parents, this is the nature of children, and parents do not need to be too anxious. If you find a problem, you should look for a solution, which can be considered from the following aspects.
Lack of incentives. Many parents say, "My child is three minutes hot. "Actually, it's like this for every child. If a child wants to achieve excellent results, there must be a pair of hands behind him to push him, that is, the constant encouragement, praise and appreciation of parents. Unfortunately, 85 to 90 percent of parents don't do this, and they also blame their children, saying that they only have three minutes of heat.
No interest. American educator John Dewey once said: Interest is a signal of growing ability. If interests and passions are developed smoothly from the start, most children will become talented. Most of our children do not study well, in fact, it is related to interests, which is what we will focus on in the second part.
Make the rules
Modern education pays attention to respect and appreciation, supplemented by guidance and help, and has long said goodbye to the original education model of beating and scolding. Therefore, we can set rules for children, tell them what to do and what not to do, use rules to restrain their lives, and help children develop good study habits. Children are easily influenced individuals, and using rules can make children accept from their hearts and strictly demand themselves according to the constraints of the rules and develop good study habits.
Influence with love
For children who are not highly motivated to learn, we should not rush to scold. As parents should be devoted to their children and patience, in the eyes of children, the father is still very majestic, very strict, for students who are tired of school, sometimes appropriate strictness is necessary, only under strict requirements, children who are tired of school may be forced to learn, lay some foundations, not to fall too much, so that there is a possibility of easily catching up. Only if children have a certain foundation, it will be easier to motivate them. But it is necessary to grasp the degree, after all, harshness does not mean scolding.
Lead with examples
There are many examples of declining academic performance due to addiction to video games and other bad habits in today's society. We can use real-life examples to guide children and stimulate their interest in learning various knowledge. It shows the serious harm of being addicted to games and not studying well. And develop playtime, combine learning and entertainment, and gradually improve children's bad habits. You can also appropriately magnify the outstanding students around the problem children, use their grades and behaviors to set a yardstick for the problem students, and urge them to get rid of bad habits and be good, but remember to grasp a good degree.
Use top student notes to motivate your child
Today I want to recommend to you a set of dry notes that bring together excellent notes from versions across the country——"Xueba Notes Elementary School".。If your child doesn't have the habit of taking notes, then this book is a good choice and can be used as a reference book for pre-review.
The book covers the important knowledge points of primary school grades 1-6, I hope it can bring you strength, the future is undecided, every child who works hard is a dark horse!
This set of top student notes is specializedDesigned for the primary school levelof, fully coveredChinese, Mathematics, EnglishThe three main subjects record the basic knowledge points, key points, difficult points, test points and error-prone points of primary school, etc., and turn these "difficult problems" into scoring questions in minutes!
Chinese + Mathematics + English, three volumes with 708 pages, full of knowledge. Every knowledge point in the book is the key content of children's primary school stage, common test points, read these three volumes of notes, quickly get the key points of knowledge, and it is difficult to get a high score!
The layout is clear and scientific, and the content is clearly prioritizedThe important and difficult points are marked in color, and the memory is more reliable.
We can find that good notes can always make people's eyes shine, and this set of "Xueba Notes" does this very well.
Left and right columns, the main and secondary are clear, and the layout is clean.
Dark color annotation of key and difficult points, concise learning, clear focus, more efficient learning.
The main column records the knowledge points, and the sub-column records the thoughts and thoughts of the child in learning.
The difficult part, comics**, is easier to raise
Difficult knowledge with interesting comics to facilitate children's understanding.
The knowledge in the book,It is all handwrittenAt first glance, it really looks like a handwritten feeling, the form is lively, ** complements each other, enough to arouse children's interest in reading.
I believe that this set of notes inspired by the notes of outstanding top students can help children clear their minds and sort out their messy brainsConduct targeted review of important and difficult points and check for omissions and fill in the gapsIt can really improve children's academic performance and comprehensive ability.
Moreover, after the child reads this set of books, they may follow the way of thinking of sorting out and summarizing the knowledge points in the book, and draw their own exclusive study notes.