There are always some people who enjoy all the good things that others bring to them, but they don't like everyone in their hearts. No matter what happens, he always likes to make irresponsible remarks, make comments, create contradictions, criticize and belittle everyone. I used to think that they were just a little extreme, but after a long time, I finally realized that all the rights and wrongs come from such "blind good people" around us.
At all stages of our lives, in special periods, there are always such people around us who are making trouble. This habit and practice of deliberately asking, peeking at will, and intervening unreasonably makes people feel uncomfortable and disgusted. There is always such a person, by your side, by your side, under the guise of doing everything in his might, to consume your trust, grab personal interests, and destroy your relationship.
We don't want to be influenced and disturbed by such people, but we can't avoid dealing with them. Maybe at some inadvertent moment, he will find a reason to deliberately approach you, intervene in your life under the pretext of caring about you, express his opinions and attitudes at will, point fingers at you, talk nonsense, and make mistakes in your life. In this world, he wantonly vents his negative emotions.
In the first half of our lives, we all put a lot of emphasis on relationships. We always felt like we were on the same front, together for a long time. We are grateful and kind to each other and put ourselves in your shoes. It is this illusion and emotional identity that makes us repeatedly hurt and depressed in real life. The unbridled and irrational emotions of others have always deeply affected and hurt us.
Years later, you will always find that those unfortunate encounters and failures are more or less related to the people around you who are often entangled with you. There are no casual interventions and distractions, and we will quietly guard our space and enjoy some quiet. And it is precisely because of the instigation and instigation of others that we are involved in too many affairs and cannot get rid of the corresponding shackles.
In this life, people must maintain their own independence and independence, and do not give others too many opportunities. You should close yourself off and protect yourself, rather than letting others meddle at will. When getting along with people, it is best to maintain "boundaries" and "distance", stay away from people with negative emotions, and try to avoid the entanglement of "molecular energy".
Negative impact on you.
When you look closely, you will find that the people who have been around us for a long time are actually the kind of people who are old and sophisticated, value interests, and care about everything. Because you are too familiar, too understanding, too interfering in our private affairs, and because you strongly recommend and recognize us, those nameless people, rivers and lakes, and low-level people are exposed, self-righteous and capable. A big tail.
The reality is often that when a person overestimates his or her abilities and influence, he overestimates his abilities, becomes arrogant, and does something extremely "out of line". You never need to take a person too seriously, because your repeated forbearance and tolerance will make others unscrupulous in front of you and not know how to restrain yourself.
Think back to the major events you've experienced in your life. Those who are self-righteous like to interfere and point fingers at you, and sometimes come uninvited, intentionally or unintentionally, to bring you trouble, destroy harmony and harmony, and cause negative negative effects. And so, again and again, it affects the fate of your life all the time, and you don't even know it.
When you look back at all this, you will suddenly understand that the reason why we have our current destiny is not only providential, but also man-made, and it is also created by others. Don't trust one person too much. You may only have a falling out once in your life, but it is enough to crush all the beauty and emotion in your heart.
Don't be afraid of offending others because of your feelings. Those who casually look down on you don't care about you at all. No matter who you are, no matter what the relationship, when someone makes you feel uncomfortable or depressed, you must clearly say no and dare to say no. Draw a line with those who have nothing to do with you, keep enough distance, and maintain the "boundaries" and sobriety of being a human being.
To be quiet is to give birth to yang. When people are free, they must learn to focus on the subject, be introverted and condensed, and maintain a strong personal magnetic field and energy. Don't be influenced by negative people who are negative, tainted by cause and effect, and involved in everything. Purify your "circle of friends", be full of enthusiasm for restraint and preparation, and actively create a clean and upright atmosphere, so that you can deal with things without being messy and deal with chaos. Astound.
Use up your energy.
Don't be easy to sympathize with others. What you see in others is just a false appearance. It is difficult for us to discover the essence hidden deep within. People who seem harmless and pitiful to the extreme, in fact, also have the malice and thoughts of trampling on others, releasing evil thoughts, and taking revenge on others. No matter how good you are, you won't necessarily be able to satisfy him. Don't be too good. Stop.
When something happens suddenly, your inner intentions and your decisions at the time will prompt you to get involved in other people's karma. You have to protect yourself and not over-amplify your energy. The world is vast, vast beyond your imagination. How small and fragile is a man's power in the face of the mighty forces of nature.
Those who are entangled with us, they always have uninterrupted right and wrong and entanglement in their bodies, because they cannot get rid of it by their own strength, and they are deeply trapped by it. When he finds us, he will pass on the bad consequences to us in disguise. Everything you do for him after that will constantly drain your energy.
If we always want to meddle in other people's affairs for no reason, then we have to endure the oppression and pressure brought about by the intertwining of forces from all sides. We have been carrying unbearable burdens for others because we are so caught up in them that we don't know how to retreat. This powerful force will affect our lives until the relationship is released and no longer exists.
We must not overestimate our capabilities. The time of our life is limited, and so is our energy. All consumption is a failure. If we don't draw on the positive energy, we will be devoured. If a person repeatedly says negative and frustrating words in front of us, it will not only distract us, but also stab us emotionally, which is also a consumption.
Mature and steady people never like to be disturbed by others. No matter what others say, he always wants to stay out of trouble and be alone. It is a kind of wisdom and sobriety in life. Those who have ulterior motives and are thick-skinned will always make their inner calculations and calculations before deliberately approaching us, so as not to easily become the "target" of others asking for "hunting".
It can damage your wealth.
The ancients said: "Those who do good are like the grass of the spring garden, growing day by day; The evildoers are like whetstones, which are lost day by day." Everything a person does in this life affects his own destiny. Things that seem unrelated are always closely related. Life is actually a kind of accumulation, and in the end, it must be cashed out bit by bit.
When your career is thriving and your life is stable, sometimes those sudden visits, those casual encounters, and other people's introductions will make us meet certain people. Of all relationships, the most difficult one is with others. You can't control and balance the ambitions of those who are hateful, boundless, and don't know how to restrain themselves, and you can't satisfy their greed.
When immoral, fearless, rebellious people walk into our circle of life, they use all sorts of reasons and excuses as bait to identify the fatal flaw of our excessive compassion. Under his ulterior motives and guidance, we have gone too far on the path of harming our own well-being and influence, and may even be irreversible.
When we meet everyone in this life, we either give it back or take it. We are destined to be the ones who bear it all. Perhaps, everything in this life is in our own numerology, and those who are deliberately guided by our desires are just illusions in our hearts. In this complex society, it is always your own mind that deviates from the trajectory of its operation, which causes trouble.
Du Yuesheng once said: "Even if you don't understand money, you can't ignore people." At all times, look at the people around you, abandon habitual thinking, trust your own eyes and judgments, and don't identify too much with others. You don't have to bother to please anyone or make friends with anyone. If you can keep yourself up, it's already a good life.
The blessed do not enter the door of suffering. Those who work hard and deliberately work hard may be burdened with too many unsolvable causes and effects. By the time they found us, we had no way out, and disaster was coming. Don't trust your abilities too much. There is a lot of suffering in this world that even a bodhisattva cannot save, and it needs to be borne and resolved silently.
Interfere with your fate.
Everything in life must be done by yourself, solved by yourself, and endured one by one. Don't let irrelevant people affect our luck and good mood. All the forces in the world are complementary and contradictory, and they work together on the conservation of energy in nature, the undercurrent of life and death, and all the remote movements that occur in an instant.
Always adhere to your inner opinion, maintain self-confidence, concentrate on forging ahead, and pick your own flowers of success. You must have a clear awareness and awareness of the people around you, and don't let those who have nothing to do and stare at others affect your current affairs, affect your future destiny, and bring you bad influences and consequences.
Know how to make choices, weigh the pros and cons, and make choices and responses in a timely manner. Don't let negative people stay with you all the time, take up your space, and influence your future. There is no well-deserved sacred socialization and closeness, only the advantages and avoid the disadvantages, balance the two, and make timely judgments and **.
When you repeatedly find yourself in situations of conflict, suspicion, deliberate judgment, denial and suppression, you have to re-examine the people around you. It is because of your credulity and lack of precautions that people with ulterior motives have the opportunity to resort to despicable means and cause trouble. When you find out about all this, be sure to respond and correct it in a timely manner.
If a person wants to plan something, he must go through unremitting efforts, forge ahead, concentrate on one point, and complete the first battle in order to achieve ultimate success and glory. When your heart is on the right path and continues to rise, you should deliberately avoid those who cause you trouble, bring you disasters and misfortunes, and always maintain a good attitude and adapt to your destiny.
If you let the participation and influence of others make things worse, not because you don't work hard enough and don't pay much, it will be a lingering regret and sigh. "Things came together. Don't spread it to the outside world until something succeeds and "fixes". Most of the dangers that can completely destroy you come from near you.