One day in November 1994, the popular singer Yang Yuying received a commercial performance task in Xiamen. Although she was physically and mentally exhausted and wanted to shirk it, she finally chose to fly to Xiamen at the urging of her agent.
At the moment of arriving in Xiamen, Yang Yuying's hair looked a little messy, she didn't make up any makeup, and she looked tired. This state is a little different from her usual image in front of the camera.
Lai Wenfeng, the young general manager of Yuanhua Group, has been waiting at the airport for a long time. He has obtained the consent of the event organizer through various channels to receive Yang Yuying.
For this meeting, Lai Wenfeng also paid out of his own pocket to prepare 6 Mercedes-Benz cars and a bouquet made of 800,000 cash. When Yang Yuying walked out of the terminal building tiredly, Lai Wenfeng's heartbeat almost burst through his chest.
Lai Wenfeng greeted Yang Yuying with a bouquet of flowers and introduced himself to her: "Hello, Miss Yang, I am Lai Wenfeng. ”
Yang Yuying shyly accepted the bouquet and said thank you with a smile. When they looked at each other, Lai Wenfeng understood that the dream lover in his heart had really appeared in front of him.
He already knew that this "coincidence" was actually carefully arranged by himself. Before he met Yang Yuying, he had seen her ** in the magazine, and then he knew that she would be his girlfriend.
Fate led her to herself.
Yang Yuying was gradually moved by Lai Wenfeng's sincere and enthusiastic pursuit, and she found that this rich second generation was not the cynicism she originally remembered, and there was a lot of resonance between the two, and they both liked to be frank and generous.
A love at first sight encounter opened a sweet relationship between the two of them for 4 years, and it has also become an unforgettable and beautiful memory in their lives.
After meeting for the first time, Yang Yuying, who was only 23 years old, fell in love with Lai Wenfeng. Yang Yuying, who followed him, often flew by private jet and luxury car, and also stayed in five-star hotels.
Yang Yuying was immersed in the sweet bubble of love, and was full of happy smiles all day long. In interviews, she has repeatedly expressed her expectation of quitting the entertainment industry, marrying Lai Wenfeng, having children, and living a warm and happy housewife life.
The two of them have taken a fancy to a property in Xiamen, intending to be a love villa in the future. However, as Yang Yuying gradually understands Lai Wenfeng's inner world, she finds that the differences between them are very large and difficult to overcome.
Lai Wenfeng has an extroverted personality, while Yang Yuying is introverted and reserved; Lai Wenfeng likes a gorgeous life, while Yang Yuying yearns for simplicity and ordinariness. It's like two people trapped on an isolated island with an unfathomable ocean in between.
After a warm conversation in 1998, Yang Yuying took the initiative to break up with Lai Wenfeng, and deeply told him that the two were "people who can't get along". Although Lai Wenfeng was sad, he understood Yang Yuying's choice.
They didn't cry, they parted peacefully, and cherished each other. However, this farewell turned out to be the last goodbye of their lives. For several years after the breakup, they couldn't really let go, like two isolated islands standing opposite each other, and in the middle was an ocean that was difficult to cross.
In 1998, shortly after Yang Yuying broke up peacefully with Lai Wenfeng, she found that Lai Wenfeng was involved in the sensational Yuanhua case, and her reputation was discredited. Yang Yuying realized that the gap they couldn't cross was not only due to differences in personal preferences and personalities, but also in the world where the two of them stood in opposite directions.
This huge scandal completely separated the lovers who were expected to grow old together.
Subsequently, Yang Yuying's relationship with Lai Wenfeng was also **, and she had to face many unspeakable rumors. Some people questioned that it was just a money transaction, and others rumored that Yang Yuying had had several abortions.
Yang Yuying was speechless, and was forced to make a comeback again in 2000, attending a press conference that lasted more than 5 hours to explain her relationship with Lai Wenfeng.
However, scandals involving money and scandals, once generated, are a stain that will be difficult to eliminate. Even though Yang Yuying clarified that this is just a simple and romantic love story, public prejudice has been deeply rooted.
After the relationship with Lai Wenfeng ended, Yang Yuying chose to temporarily withdraw from the entertainment industry due to her discredit, and chose to go to the UK to study alone, so as to re-examine her life.
She knows that the story of herself and Lai Wenfeng has become history, and there will be no more results. The most important thing now is to live well, and you are the decision-maker of your own life.
During her 8 years of studying abroad, Yang Yuying traveled to various European countries, learned multiple languages, and tried various jobs. She has set a clear life plan for herself, that is, to broaden her horizons before the age of 30, return to China to develop her career after the age of 30, achieve financial freedom at the age of 40, and retire at the age of 50.
Yang Yuying no longer has any expectations for love, and she chooses to enrich her life with her career and self-growth. After ups and downs, Yang Yuying has become a well-informed woman with a strong heart.
In 2012, Yang Yuying returned to Chinese mainland and re-entered the entertainment industry. When the reporter mentioned her previous relationship, she couldn't hold back her tears, but she immediately adjusted her mentality and appeared calm.
Now Yang Yuying can calmly respond to any questions from Lai Wenfeng, because she has let go of the emotional baggage of the past and started anew. She now has her own life plan and knows exactly what she is pursuing.
The story of Yang Yuying and Lai Wenfeng is like a miss arranged by God. They obviously love each other deeply, but they can't usher in a happy ending after all.
However, what is even more rare is that after this failed romance, they both began to bravely and independently embark on their own paths in life.
Yang Yuying, who is now 52 years old, chooses to continue to insist on her acting career and live a simple life. Although she has not married or had children, she said she has no regrets.
The value of women cannot be simply defined in love and family, Yang Yuying shines on her own path.
At the same time, Lai Wenfeng gradually redeemed his crimes and began to live an ordinary life. He finally has a home of his own, and although he missed Yang Yuying, he also found another kind of happiness.
On the road of life, we are all pursuing inner peace, which is the meaning of life. The story of Yang Yuying and Lai Wenfeng tells us that after falling in love, we must still maintain an independent soul, which is a common life topic for all of us.