Chen Li, a married man, has derailed his spirit, and his mind is occupied by Feng Dan. Facing his wife, who was in pain because of him, he was cold and threw out: "We are nothing, do you have to make such a fuss?" This kind of betrayal and abandonment is heartbreaking. He accused his wife of being vexatious, but ignored his betrayal of his marriage and abandonment of his family. This cruelty, this ruthlessness, makes people wonder: If a man doesn't love him, how much harm can he do to his wife?
What Chen Li's wife endured was a secret and bitter pain that almost made people worse than death. Their marriage was like a tragedy, brutally torturing this woman. What's even more heart-wrenching is that Chen Li knew that he had a family and Feng Dan also had a husband, but he still chose to go to this road of no return.
The working environment within the system has strict requirements for the private life of employees, because character is an important criterion for the company to evaluate employees. But Chen Li ignored these regulations, made his ambiguous relationship with Feng Dan public, and even absent himself from work many times, completely ignoring his work. His colleague Ye Yifan is an upright man who loves his wife deeply. He saw it in his eyes and felt pain in his heart, and reminded Chen Li many times to be cautious about his work and family.
There are more and more rumors in the company, and the leaders' dissatisfaction with Chen Li has also reached the extreme. Ye Yifan, out of concern for Chen Li, even personally asked the leader to intercede for Chen Li. But at this time, Chen Li was already confused by Feng Dan, completely ignored the leader's warning, and continued to absent himself from work and ask for leave.
In the end, Chen Li was fired from the company, which was his inevitable end. After all, it is impossible for any company to tolerate an employee who has a bad outlook, a bad reputation, and ignores the leadership. And for the sake of Feng Dan, he was desperate, and he didn't even want his family and work. His wife and daughter left him as a result, and his wife was separated.
Hou Yuanyuan witnessed Chen Li's scene of shielding Feng Dan from the wind and rain in front of everyone's eyes in order to protect her. He takes care of Feng Dan meticulously, which makes people sigh at his carefulness and thoughtfulness. But it is his meticulous care and desperate dedication to Feng Dan that shows his cruelty and ruthlessness to his wife and daughter. He indulges in the thrill of redeeming Fontaine, but forgets that there is a wife at home who is suffering because of him.
This story tells us that betraying a marriage and disregarding the family not only hurt his wife and children, but also ultimately cost him his job and family. We should cherish the happiness in front of us and not do things that we will regret for the rest of our lives for the sake of momentary passion. Chen Li, this man, really makes me feel extremely disgusting. His two intolerable points really make me feel that he is a hopeless person.
First of all, his thoughts on Fontaine. Obviously, his heart is full of thoughts about Feng Dan, but he always pretends to be a "I am a good person". I really want to ask him, what exactly is a good person? Hiding one's desires and not hurting others is what makes one a good person. And what about him? While harboring a ghost for Feng Dan, and at the same time being violent towards her, is this what he looks like a "good person"? When Feng Dan was treated like this, she could choose to call the police, choose to stay in a hotel, and even ask other women for help. But what about Chen Li? He chose the most cruel way to deal with her. He and Feng Dan are alone in the same room, crazy and ambiguous, completely ignoring his wife's feelings and his daughter's life or death.
Let's talk about his second unbearable point, he did all the ridiculous things and tried his best to hurt his wife Hou Yuanyuan, but in turn accused Hou Yuanyuan of being too suspicious and uneasy. I really want to ask him, who is making trouble? A man who has done something wrong, not only does not reflect on himself, but also blames his wife for all the mistakes, is this still a human being? Looking at the portrait of his parents, he didn't dare to deny his feelings for Feng Dan, but turned his face and accused Hou Yuanyuan: Does it have to be like this? That's where his shamelessness comes in. I have done something wrong, but I put the blame on others.
And what about Hou Yuanyuan? She is just a wife who loves Chen Li deeply, but she was completely injured by him. She signed the divorce agreement, which was her ultimatum. But what about Chen Li? He knew that his wife was on the verge of collapse, but he still hurt her desperately. The separation of his wife is an inevitable outcome for a negative person like him.
I have to say that Chen Li and Han Jinjin are both kinds of people, and they are crazy to hurt their wives. It's just that Han Jinjin blatantly hurt his wife's body, while Chen Li secretly hurt his wife's heart. They are the targets of everyone's shouting.
Moreover, Chen Li and the married Feng Dan are ambiguous, and everyone in the company has heard of it. What is Fontaine's identity? It was Chen Li's client, a married woman. And what about Hou Yuanyuan's identity? The whole company, and even the whole hometown, know that she is a hard-working and good wife, taking care of her children at home. Chen Li's behavior not only hurt Hou Yuanyuan, but also hurt the respect for women in the whole society.
An employee with a bad reputation, he is entangled with female customers, abandons his wife and children, and is a well-known marriage betrayer on the Internet. What does the leader think of such a person? The leader was dissatisfied with Chen Li's miners, and even more despised his bottomless entanglement with female customers. This kind of contempt almost represents the attitude of the entire company and even the entire network towards Chen Li. He is burdened with infamy, does he really want to divorce and be with Feng Dan?
He knew that Hou Yuanyuan would not leave him, so he unscrupulously trampled on the bottom line of marriage and hurt Hou Yuanyuan. However, once lost, he will have nothing and regret it for the rest of his life. Some men are destined to suffer the retribution of the separation of their wives. Time flies, and Chen Li and Hou Yuanyuan's daughter Chen Jiaqi is 15 years old. The two have been married for more than ten years, but Chen Li has always been obsessed with Hou Yuanyuan's cheating marriage. Since you have decided to get married, you should take on the responsibilities of the family and treat your wife and daughter well. Especially when the child is so old, the wife is extremely pleasing in the marriage and has given everything.
While enjoying his wife's dedication and care, Chen Li also enjoyed the warmth of having a daughter, but he always cherished his wife, ignoring or even coldly violenting his wife. He knew that he would hurt his wife, but he still deceived and hurt him unscrupulously, just because Hou Yuanyuan loved him deeply. How cruel it is when this love becomes a man's blade to hurt his wife.
What is Hou Yuanyuan's daily life? Almost all the footage records her busy with housework, taking care of her daughter, loving Chen Li with all her might, and maintaining her small family. And when she poured her feelings and efforts into this family, Chen Li was complaining about marriage and ambiguous affairs with Feng Dan.
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Women, never marry someone who doesn't love you, and don't think that your dedication can move him. Because you don't love, your contribution is just a burden to him, and your care is just a shackle. The emotions you pay for him will only be exchanged for a "deserved" ending. Hou Yuanyuan is a living example. And Chen Li will eventually suffer the consequences.