Friend s voice There is sunshine in the heart, and there must be a distance

Mondo Culture Updated on 2024-02-01

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Pseudonym: Mo Mo.

Age: post-70s.

Gender: Female. City: Yueyang City, Hunan Province.

Hobbies: Calligraphy, traveling.

Surgery Hospital: Xiangya Hospital, Central South University.

At the beginning of 2021, I was always inexplicably tired and anxious. I want to slow down, I should be tired from work, and there have been too many things recently.

I haven't had a physical examination for two years, and I am a little resistant to going to the hospital. It wasn't until September that I went to the Second Xiangya Hospital of Central South University, and the result of the examination was menopausal syndrome.

The doctor said that the conditioning is fine, there is no problem, and it will get better slowly. However, I need to do a full body physical examination before I can make a comprehensive judgment on how to recuperate.

Another week later I went to the hospital for a check-up. When the ultrasound of the neck was taken, the doctor said that there seemed to be a nodule in the neck and asked me to go for a puncture. At that time, when I took the ultrasound sheet to the expert, the expert said to me solemnly, "You have a problem with this, you need to be operated on immediately", and immediately gave me a hospitalization order for surgery.

In order to better understand thyroid cancer, I decided to go to Xiangya Hospital of Central South University for a new look.

This time, I hung up in the endocrinology department, and the results of blood draw and color ultrasound were almost the same as before. The doctor recommended that the puncture be done, and after the puncture, he would go to the general surgery department for surgery. There are currently no medications**, and the best way to do this is surgery**.

I had a puncture the day before the National Day, and in the evening I received the result of "suspected papillary thyroid cancer", and the next step was to consider when to do the surgery.

I have courses in school, training classes outside, the company and business, and a lot of other jobs, but the most important thing is that my child is going to take the college entrance examination next year, and I don't want to be distracted. I want to wait until next summer to have surgery, and secretly encourage myself, "This cancer cell is developing slowly, but I can hold on a little longer."

The number of the thyroid department of Xiangya Hospital is really hard to find, and when I finally got the number, the first thing I said when I saw the doctor was, "Can I not have surgery?" ”。The authoritative professor gave me a negative answer, and I had no way out.

With the care and help of my relatives, I took my 80-year-old mother to Xiangya Hospital at the end of October. My mother wanted to take care of me, but she refused, and I told them that my mother was fine.

In fact, I had another idea of letting my mother accompany me to the hospital. First, I took my mother to check her body by the way, and second, I heard that the disease was not serious, so we could just take advantage of this hospitalization to get along with my mother.

In three days, our mother and daughter completed all the examinations. My mother's health is really fine, which makes me feel at ease, and I cooperate more without distractions**.

At two o'clock in the afternoon of the operating day, I was wheeled into the operating room. **Gentle questioning, I looked around. I have been in the operating room twice before, and once I gave birth to Xiao Yi happily, and I had a caesarean section painfully and happily. Another time I went into the operating room and had no choice but to induce labor.

Lying on the operating table, the gentle ** sounded, I thought of Xiao Yi, tears were flowing, and I slowly fell asleep in the anesthetic. Two and a half hours later, I was taken back to the ward, and I felt the sadness of my mother, who was in a hurry in the ward.

I am indeed a daughter that she worries about, and my mother has been by her side several times when she has been seriously ill. Mother is busy, happy, and talkative, she likes to make friends, and she likes to get acquainted with new things, and she lives a very open life, which is why she is not hidden.

My mother was old, so she couldn't take care of me at night, and my sister stayed by my bedside all night the first night. I was the one who had the worst recovery in the ward and couldn't move or speak after the surgery.

The next day, she still couldn't eat, she could only use a cotton swab to apply warm water to her lips, and she couldn't get out of bed, and her mother was very anxious. She picked up ** like a rabbit, and quickly ran outside to answer, constantly asking about the situation.

On the third day, I started to swallow slowly, drink water, and eat soft liquids. The cancer cells have eroded the small vocal cords, the trunk is fine, and the voice needs to be slowly restored.

The characteristics of the surgery are basically there, the throat is hoarse, there is phlegm, it depends on the individual's constitution to deal with it, and it is treated at home. On the fourth day, the wound healed well, and the only problem was to stay with Lele for the rest of his life.

I'm still on my biological clock at 5 a.m., and I'll have breakfast at 9 a.m. after Lele.

I like Bi Shumin's quote very much, "Appropriate confusion is not only an acceptable stage, it is almost the privilege of young people." You have the right to be at a loss, but you can't be at a loss for too long, because too long of being at a loss is the laziness of thinking and the abandonment of action. The premise of confusion is to have the motivation to take a step forward and find, and you must turn confusion into a kind of courage to explore."

Let the source of joy offset the complaints in your head. Do what you like, I believe that loneliness and hesitation are only temporary, the wind is sluggish and the water is cold, I will go up and down and seek!

Finally, I would like to thank my mother, my loved ones for their care, Dr. Tan of the Department of Thyroid Surgery of Xiangya Hospital for his meticulousness, professionalism, patience and humor, the medical staff of Xiangya Hospital, and all the friends who have helped me before.

We must pay attention to our physical health and work and rest time, and face it with a peaceful mind, put down our burdens, and be optimistic and strong in both work and life. After I was discharged from the hospital, I continued to work hard, doing counseling and attending classes at the same time, and my health was recovering well. - Mo Mo.

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