"Anyway, I don't want a woman who wants a large bride price and a diamond ring, and everyone can't get divorced from the beginning, it's not ancient, and women shouldn't ask for a bride price if they're independent! The state advocates the abolition of the bride price! ”
Many men hate the threshold of bride price. But the reason for the bride price is not the woman, but the man in order to compete for the right of the spouse, and this stigmatizing hat cannot be put on the woman's head at all.
As a part of traditional Chinese wedding customs, why bride price has become a "roadblock" on the road to marriage is prohibitive.
It's simply because marriage itself is risky. The bride price is similar to a kind of security deposit for the man's whole family, and it is a sincere gesture for the woman to leave her parents and join a new family. If it's okay, everyone is happy, and if there's something, this money is the life-saving money for jumping out of the fire pit with the child, and the compensation for the blind.
After the bride price is abolished, it may be more difficult for men at the bottom to get married.
I don't want to pay for a guarantee for the woman, and I want someone else to have a baby as a nanny. How is it possible, empty gloves white wolf, then don't get married, marriage is not a necessity anyway.
After all, marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, three meals a day, laundry and cooking, worrying about making money, busy with the hardships of bringing up a baby, and living a chicken feather, how many women can be happier than single after marriage.
Abolish the bride price, and many low-income families who favor sons over daughters will also know that even if they give birth to girls, they must educate and study well. In the future, it is better to make money on your own. Because I can't sell my daughter for a bride price.
As women become more conscious of their thoughts, the more beautiful they spend when they make money, and they can't look down on low-level men, because they are poor, calculating, calculating, and their three views are not in tune, and they can't make money and are hypocritical.
In fact, there are many girls who don't want bride price, and the higher the education, the better the reading of women, the less important the bride price, and even the bride price. The problem is that these girls who don't want a bride price don't look down on those men who don't have any ability to complain and can't even get the bride price money.
To a certain extent, the bride price is a manifestation of the competitiveness of the marriage of low-level men. That is to say, women and women's families can reluctantly bear their shortcomings for the sake of money, as long as they are not the shortcomings of men's principles.
Really cancel the bride price, the rich have more advantages, and girls would rather be small for the rich than follow the poor man. Especially in the current society where the gap between the rich and the poor is widening, men with no wealth and no ability will only exacerbate the trend of singleness, because they really have nothing to do.
It is ideal to promote gender equality and return marriage to its roots.
Everyone gets married with real skills, and no one mentions money.
Calm down, take out the account book, and calculate a clear account with a clear mind, no matter what, you can't get married impulsively.