When a person reaches the age of 60, the saddest thing is not that he is poor, but that he is in the cage of these five things
Time flies so fast, in the blink of an eye, we are 60 years old, and most of our lives have passed.
In most of our lives, we have suffered too much, endured too much pressure, and endured too many hardships in order to live, to raise our children, and to make our families happy.
However, in his later years, he discovered that the "hardships and difficulties" of life are not just at a certain stage of life. Even in the later years of life, there are some hardships, even more difficult than when I was young. ”
When a person reaches the age of 60, the most bitter and difficult thing is not to be poor, but to still be in these five states.
First, when a person reaches sixty, he can't think about Qingfu, but he has to work hard, work hard, and continue to earn money.
In this world, there have always been people who are happy and some who are sad.
The same people after the age of 60 have different fates.
Some people retire at home and enjoy a high pension.
Some people have to leave home and work hard to make money.
It's not that they don't want to stay at home and enjoy family fun like everyone else, but they were not born in a good family, coupled with the imbalance of teacher education, they didn't go to a good school, they didn't have a fixed unit and job, and no one paid pension insurance for themselves, so naturally they didn't have the pension that could support their lives.
Therefore, even at the age of 60, in order to live, I still have to wander everywhere and work hard.
It's not that there is no social security, but 120 yuan In this era where everything needs money, you can't support yourself at all.
As some people say, all your life is to live and learn all the time, and if you don't have the conditions, you have to work until you are old, whether you are 60 or 70 years old, as long as you can do it, you have to do it.
Second, when people reach sixty, they will be gnawed by their children.
As everyone knows, raising children to prevent old age.
In this era of great competitive pressure, raising children is not necessarily able to prevent old age, it is not bad not to gnaw the old, it is not that they are not filial, but the children who are carrying car loans and mortgages, and they have spare energy and are helpless.
Just like that well-known saying, everyone has a difficult song to sing, and every family has a difficult scripture.
When a person reaches the age of 60, the most difficult thing to recite is not that he has no children, but that he will continue to worry about his children after the age of 60.
For example, if the children's marriage is not smooth and divorced, they have to contribute their own money to help them raise their children.
For example, if your children are working hard and you owe debts and are unable to repay them, you will suffer with them.
For example, if the children do not work well, they return home and have to support themselves.
It's not that I have to take care of the affairs between my children, but that no matter how unbearable my children are, they are also my own flesh and blood, and I have to take care of them.
Third, after the age of 60, there is still no money and no power.
As the old saying goes, money is a person's guts and a person's mentality.
If you have money, you will smile, and if you don't have money, you will be worried.
When people reach 60, if they don't have money in their hands, no matter what they want to eat or buy, it is a big problem to stump themselves.
It's not that you can't ask your children for money, but when you reach the age of 60, you don't know the reason why you don't have money in your hand.
If your children are wealthy, you can save for yourself.
The reason why I don't have money is that I spend the money I earn on my children.
Therefore, after the age of 60, the saddest thing is not that I don't earn money, but that I earn money, and I don't have money in my hands.
Without money, you will live without dignity and confidence, and you have to act according to the faces of others.
Fourth, when people reach sixty, they don't live as they like, but they live as free nannies for their children.
When I was young, I was afraid that they would be cold and hungry and frozen, and when my children were older and settled, I was afraid that they would be under too much pressure, suffer and be tired, and my husband and wife would not agree, so I took the initiative to help them and take care of them wholeheartedly, whether it was laundry and cooking, or cleaning, taking care of children, or tutoring homework, they were meticulous in their efforts, and they were tired and tired.
As some people say, after the age of 60, they don't live as they like, but they live as a free babysitter for their children.
What's more, sometimes, the effort is not thankless, and the initiative is not exchanged for gratitude and gratitude in return, but in exchange for the son and daughter-in-law's words that they have not done a good job, and that they have not done a good job.
Just like the sentence I read some time ago, some people say: "Parents are the warmest harbor for children", and some people retorted that in children who don't know how to be grateful, they are not managed, and they are not in a cage that they can't get out of. It is also the saddest thing for people after the age of 60.
Fifth, the sky is not afraid, the earth is not afraid, I am afraid that after the age of 60, I will be sick in bed and will not see a trace of hope.
Someone said: "People grow up eating whole grains, sores and diseases are inevitable, if you can't get out of bed for a long time after a serious illness, it is the saddest thing in life." ”
The ancients said: There is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness. It's not that children are unfilial, but taking care of the elderly who can't take care of themselves, after a long time, they will be physically and mentally tired, tired, and even tiresome and annoying.
If you encounter unfilial children, the worst result will be abandoned by your children and you will fend for yourself in helplessness.
The world is so big that there are no such things, even if there are no such things around you, there will be other places.
It's not human indifference, it's the cruelty of life.
Therefore, after the age of 60, the saddest thing is not poverty, but the above things.