On February 14, Xie Hui will hold a small wedding with Russian woman Dalia in a secluded place away from the city, a wedding that has been postponed for four years due to the pandemic. On the eve of the wedding, he was interviewed by the Shanghai ** "Morning News" and talked about the topic of marriage and his wife's life, the following is an excerpt from this interview.
Interview: You have a wealth of emotional experience, why did you choose this lady in the end? Xie Hui: The chronological order of a person's life is really important. When you are physically and mentally ready, you meet the right person, and this is the so-called suitability. By the time you're ready, there may be a lot of people who could be the right fit.
Interview: Does getting married at the age of 50 require more courage than when you were younger? Xie Hui: When you're sure you've met the right person, everything will fall into place. I take getting married as a matter of course, and it should have been a wedding 4 years ago. Now that I have this gap, I'm going to give her an explanation, give her a ritual. Even though I'm remarried, she's not, is she? Then you have to pay attention to something.
Interview: Please share what kind of person she is? Xie Hui: She is an unbiased person, and we can agree on many aspects. With her, I realized the true value of a relationship, and all I had pursued in the past was something as gorgeous as fireworks......
Interview: What is the real value? Xie Hui: She made me feel whole. As Tom Cruise said to the heroine in "Mr. Sweetheart": "You make me feel whole." ”
In general, Xie Hui's words are full of sincere feelings about marriage and feelings. His experience tells us that love knows no age, and the key is to find the right person. So, what do you think constitutes true love?