Pattern is the vision and mind that a person shows when thinking about problems, which can determine the upper limit of a person's development. In the process of blind date, if a man's pattern is too small, it will often cause him to miss the opportunity and even affect his future development.
In this story, Li Yanjie, a 38-year-old man, and the beautiful Zhang Xin went on a blind date, and Zhang Xin asked for a trial marriage because she had been emotionally hurt. For the average person, this is not an excessive request, after all, marriage is a lifelong event that needs to be carefully considered. However, Li Yanjie rejected this request because of his small pattern and selfishness, and missed a possible good opportunity.
It can be seen from this incident that Li Yanjie's pattern is too small and lacks vision and bearing. He only saw the immediate gains and losses, and did not take into account the longer-term development and potential risks. In modern society, equality between men and women has become a universal consensus, and women also have the right to choose their own way of marriage. If Li Yanjie loses Zhang Xin's opportunity because of his selfishness, then he may miss a lot of beautiful scenery in his life.
The size of a person's pattern is not innate, but gradually formed through acquired experience and cultivation. Therefore, we should pay attention to cultivating our own pattern, broaden our horizons and mind, and do not let short-sightedness and small patterns limit our development. At the same time, we should also respect the choices and rights of others, and not miss more life opportunities because of momentary selfishness.
In conclusion, this story teaches us that the size of a person's pattern is crucial to the development of life. We should pay attention to cultivating our own pattern in our daily life, broaden our horizons and minds, and at the same time respect the choices and rights of others, and do not miss more life opportunities because of temporary selfishness. Only in this way can we go further and broader on the road of life.
In modern society, equality between men and women has become a universal consensus. Women also have the right to choose their own marriage, including trial marriage. This is not a subversion of the traditional concept of marriage, but a respect for the diversified development of modern society. If a man rejects a woman's request for a trial marriage because he can't accept them, it means that his mind is still stuck in the past, lacking understanding and tolerance of modern society.
Of course, we can't generalize that all men will refuse to try marriage because of the small size. After all, everyone's ideological concepts and life experiences are different, and everyone has their own choices and judgments. However, if we can recognize our own shortcomings from this incident and pay attention to cultivating our own pattern and mind, then our life will definitely be better.
In short, the size of a person's pattern is crucial to the development of life. We should pay attention to cultivating our own pattern and mind in our daily life, respect the choices and rights of others, and not miss more life opportunities because of momentary selfishness. Only in this way can we go further and broader on the road of life. At the same time, we should also cherish every opportunity, do not easily give up or reject possible opportunities, and make our future more beautiful and fulfilling.