Xiao You and Xiao Li are college classmates, and in their sophomore year, Xiao Li chased Xiao You for half a year, and the two finally got together and obtained a tour guide certificate together.
In this flash, he has graduated for 2 years, and in these 2 years, Xiao Li has changed several jobs, just started his own business, and went to Guangzhou with his father to buy a machine for making fish tofu, saying that he wanted to sell fish tofu, but he only gave up after only doing it for more than a month, saying that there was no source of customers; Later, he went to a four-star hotel to apply for a job as a front desk, with a monthly salary of more than 800 (in 2008), and if he met a generous guest to tip, there were more than 1,000 a month.
And Xiaoyou has been working as a tour guide since graduation, leaving early and returning late for a long time, hard work, but the average income a month is four or five thousand. When encountering the tourist season, in the scenic spot to take tourists to eat also have to help grab the food, wave after wave of tourists at the same time poured into the small restaurant, their own tour guide has to help grab the food, otherwise it will be the tour guide of other groups to their own tourists, and so the tourists have all the dishes before they began to eat in a hurry, so it goes on for a long time, due to the irregular meal time, Xiaoyou got stomach disease, a cold to the stomach is uncomfortable, she said to Xiao Li: I want to change to a more relaxed job, with a group I eat irregularly, stomach pain.
She thought that Xiao Li would say that she would change it, but she knew that Xiao Li said: You can take a group for a few more years, and wait until you save for the down payment of the house and then change it easily! At that time, Xiaoyou didn't say anything, and continued to lead the group.
Once, Xiao You was leading a group, Xiao Li called ** and said: I want to confess a thing to you, my colleague, a female colleague, said last night that she would invite me to dinner this morning, I got off work this morning and waited for her to get off work, and then we took the bus to eat together, she dozed off in the car and laughed so much. Xiaoyou listened to the expressionless and said: Oh, I know! And then it hung up**.
From that moment on, she knew that Xiao Li must have different feelings for this female colleague, otherwise it would be impossible to say that she was funny. Since then, Xiaoyou's idea of not wanting to lead a group has become stronger, and she also called her parents in her hometown, saying that she wanted to go home and find an easy job, and her mother immediately agreed after hearing it, because her mother has always felt that Xiao Li is not very motivated, and wants to buy a house and let the woman earn a down payment, and her monthly salary is only enough to eat by herself, and even the rent is Xiaoyou.
Later, Xiao Li had a situation where he didn't return overnight, he said that he was going to drink with friends, and he didn't want to come back, so he wanted to indulge, and slowly Xiaoyou's feelings for Xiao Li were also decreasing, she took the initiative to break up, although Xiao Li tried his best to redeem it, but they finally broke up!
Xiaoyou returned to his hometown, found a 9-to-6 job, since returning to his hometown, he cut off contact with his ex-boyfriend, and then met his current husband, the two fell in love for two years and got married, and now they have a cute baby!
Writing this story is not to say that it is not okay to let the woman earn a down payment on the house, but to tell everyone: if you want to run a small family well, you must work together on both sides, and your hearts must be together.
I wish you all a happy family!