The Chinese New Year is coming, and every family sits together, and the atmosphere of reunion and joy is always intoxicating. But in this warm atmosphere, there are always some traditional "wine table cultures" that give people a headache.
In the face of the persuasion of relatives and friends, how to refuse without losing etiquette has become a difficult problem in the hearts of many people. Today, let's work together on how to deal with it skillfully and make the New Year's flavor fresher and more comfortable!
1. Refusal to persuade to drink is not the same as rejection of friendship.
In many people's minds, drinking seems to be a way to express enthusiasm and concern. But in reality, true camaraderie is not about drinking or not, but about understanding and respecting each other. Therefore, when we refuse to persuade us to drink, we must first make it clear that this is not a rejection of other people's friendship, but sticking to our own bottom line and principles.
2. Health first, sober New Year.
The harm of alcohol to the body is self-evident. At this special moment of the Chinese New Year, we should cherish our health and enjoy reunion and joy in a sober state. Refusing to persuade you to drink alcohol is not only responsible for your own health, but also responsible for your family.
3. Respond skillfully and resolve embarrassment.
In the face of persuasion, how to refuse politely and resolve the embarrassment? Here are a few tips to share with you:
Communicate in advance: At the wine table, you can indicate in advance that you don't plan to drink today, or that you can't drink due to physical reasons, so that everyone will not repeatedly persuade you.
Change the subject: When someone advises you to drink, you can subtly change the subject, such as talking about your recent work, life, or New Year's resolutions and expectations.
Tea instead of wine: Tea is also an important drink in Chinese culture. When you are advised to drink, you may wish to replace the wine with tea, which not only expresses your attitude, but also does not lose etiquette.
Fourth, stick to the bottom line and don't follow the crowd.
At the wine table, faced with the pressure of persuasion, many people may choose to compromise and feel that "it doesn't matter if you drink a little". But such thoughts often lead to uncontrollable situations. Therefore, we must stick to our bottom line and not follow the crowd in order to truly enjoy the happiness of the New Year.
5. Respect others and yourself.
While refusing to persuade alcohol, we must also respect those who like to drink. Everyone has their own preferences and choices, and we can't dismiss others because of our own preferences. At the same time, we must also respect ourselves and not do things against our will in order to cater to others.
In short, we don't have to feel troubled and embarrassed in the face of persuasion during the Chinese New Year. As long as we stick to our bottom line and principles, and enjoy this beautiful moment with a healthy and sober attitude, I believe we will be able to spend a happy and peaceful New Year!
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