The Spring Festival is a happy moment for thousands of families to reunite, and it is also a precious time for a large family to gather together.
It's not easy to get in touch with each other, and it's even harder to meet in person. Therefore, on the days when everyone gets together, everyone should say what they should say and what they should not say, and they must distinguish the time and occasion.
Don't let your own temperament say whatever comes to mind. Otherwise, it is not the brothers and sisters who are embarrassed, but they are embarrassed by themselves. It not only swept away everyone's interest, but also destroyed the atmosphere of harmonious coexistence in the family.
Therefore, you must grasp the balance of what you say and do, don't say what you shouldn't say, don't ask what you shouldn't ask, and it's best not to talk about the following 5 topics:
1. Don't show off.
It is really not easy for siblings plus their spouses and children to reunite as a family.
Among them, there will always be people who are prosperous and successful in their careers, and there are also people who are not very ordinary.
But no matter what, everyone is destined to become brothers and sisters in this life, that is, relatives who break bones and tendons, and blood is thicker than water.
So the one who mixes well, whether it is a brother or a brother, or a sister or a sister, don't show how rich you are, how high your status is, how luxurious your house is, how high-end your car is, etc.
Because home is not a place for you to show off, brothers and sisters are not the object of your show, and the Chinese New Year is not the time for you to show off.
2. Rightly or wrongly.
No matter how close siblings are, it doesn't necessarily mean that everyone can be treated equally. It's like ten fingers connected to the heart, but there are always different lengths. Besides, the tongue is so close to the teeth that the tongue is bitten sometimes.
Between brothers and sisters, it is inevitable that who gets closer to whom, who is still lingering on some things, and there is discord between each other and so on. Take this opportunity to complain and complain behind your back, like this, if you celebrate the New Year's holiday, don't mention it, let alone participate.
3. Do not remove the scars.
Although everyone is a brother and sister, when I was a child, because everyone was not very sensible, it was inevitable that there would be fights and quarrels.
But now that it's been a long time, don't bring it up again, don't go back to the scabbed scars, and take them out again to discuss the merits.
When I was a child, it is difficult to say whether it is right or wrong, and since everything has passed, this kind of practice of turning over old accounts is inappropriate, and there is no need to bring up the old things again. mentioned it, which is not conducive to harmony, but also affects the mood of the New Year.
4. Don't be too polite.
Brothers and sisters have their own economic conditions and practical difficulties, so in terms of gifts, they should not compare themselves with each other, let alone be disliked for the poor and love the rich.
As the saying goes, courtesy is more important than friendship. Between brothers and sisters, no one wants to deliberately take advantage of anyone. Therefore, in terms of gifts, everyone tailors their clothes according to their own economic conditions, and it is good to have their hearts.
5. Don't criticize.
During the Spring Festival, don't criticize your siblings' children easily, you should praise and encourage them more, and praise their children more. Even if you find that individual children have bad habits or problems in any aspect, do not criticize and blame them in public, and you can wait for the Chinese New Year to remind your siblings to pay attention to them in private.
In short, the reunion of a family for the New Year is a rare opportunity, everyone should cherish it, and do their best to maintain this hard-won happy time, so that everyone can spend a relaxed, happy and peaceful Spring Festival together.
Follow me and don't get lost on the road of love.