In 1982, Yu Mingjia got married in Nanguan District, Changchun City, Jilin Province, with a kind of "plastic surgery" called Yu Mingjia, her husband Hu Jun has not changed much, but she is like a different person born in a family. His father worked in the police force and his mother was an intellectual. Her mother expected her to be a good diplomat like her aunt.
Yu Mingjia has been under great pressure to study since he was a child. She had to be at the top of her grades or she would be harshly criticized by her mother. In order to meet her mother's requirements, Yu Mingjia had to give up the joy of play and devote all her time to studying.
She not only had to concentrate on her studies, but also learned her skills such as painting and piano.
Despite the numerous praises and awards she received, she felt that happiness and freedom were getting farther and farther away from her. Her childhood was filled with her parents' expectations, but her own wishes were left unattended.
In order to pursue true freedom, after graduating from high school, Yu Mingjia resolutely chose Chinese opera and began her acting career. But her father was so angry that he beat her and demanded that she go to the Diplomatic Academy.
The mother persuaded the father to give in and agreed to Yu Mingjia to try.
During his time in Chinese opera, Yu Mingjia devoted himself to the study of performing arts. After graduating from college, she began to apply for a job in the entertainment industry, but suffered repeated setbacks. With no background, she participated in many interviews, but she had few opportunities. Even if she passed the interview, she could only get some inconsequential roles.
However, Yu Mingjia did not give up because of this, but worked harder to improve his acting skills. After a long wait, she finally successfully played the second female Tong Duoduo in the TV series "Golden Wedding", allowing her acting skills to be recognized.
This was an important turning point in her acting career.
As soon as her career improved, Yu Mingjia's mother began to worry about her marriage. She specially arranged a blind date, and the male protagonist was Hu Jun, a man who was 7 years older than Yu Ming.
When they met for the first time, Yu Mingjia's first impression of Hu Jun was very bad. Hu Jun came wearing a T-shirt and jeans, which looked very informal, which made Yu Mingjia feel a little uncomfortable. They chatted briefly, and Hu Jun's speech and demeanor made Yu Mingjia feel very appreciative.
She thinks Hu Jun's behavior is not steady enough.
After returning home, Yu Mingjia directly told his mother that Hu Jun was not good. Despite this, her mother still encouraged her to meet Hu Jun again, and Yu's father also persuaded his daughter to give Hu Jun a chance behind his back.
Compared with the contrast when they first met, Yu Mingjia's opinion of Hu Jun has changed a lot. Hu Jun fell in love with Mingjia at first sight and took the initiative to pursue it passionately. He often contacted Yu Mingjia, and would also communicate with Yu's father, expressing his desire to be with Yu Mingjia.
With his father's encouragement, Hu Jun finally opened the door to Yu Mingjia's heart. The relationship between the two is gradually heating up.
After Hu Jun's pursuit, Yu Mingjia's relationship with him gradually warmed up. They kept in touch frequently and became more and more speculative when they got along.
One day, Hu Jun confessed to Mingjia: "If we are together, I will go to Beijing to accompany you and take care of your daily life." ”
Yu Mingjia was deeply moved by this sentence. Hu Jun, a Shanghai man, is willing to leave his hometown for her and come to the unfamiliar city of Beijing. Hu Jun's sincerity touched Yu Mingjia, and she finally nodded and agreed to be with Hu Jun.
Hu Jun soon came to Beijing, and as he promised, he could be by Yu Mingjia's side at all times. In 2010, Hu Jun mustered up the courage to propose to Yu Mingjia and successfully entered the palace of marriage with her.
After marriage, Yu Mingjia chose to temporarily withdraw from the entertainment industry and concentrate on playing the role of a good wife. Soon after, she gave birth to a daughter. Holding her lovely daughter, Yu Mingjia felt unprecedented satisfaction and happiness.
As her daughter grew up, Yu Mingjia began to have the idea of returning to work. She told Hu Jun that she only takes on one film a year, and the workload is small, and she hopes that Hu Jun can support her comeback.
Hu Jun respected Yu Mingjia's idea and said that he would fully support her decision. In order to take care of the family, he took the initiative to reduce his workload and spend as much time at home as possible with his daughter.
Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun's life after marriage was plain and happy.
Hu Jun is a typical straight man who is not very good at expressing love. He couldn't understand why he was sending flowers on Valentine's Day, but Yu Minga reminded him to send a bouquet of roses.
He would appear clumsy to hide his discomfort, jokingly saying, "Hurry up, or the 35 sticks will wilt in a while."
Whenever Yu Mingjia said "I love you" to Hu Jun, Hu Jun would respond "I love you too, wife" in his own unique way. Although he doesn't understand romance, he can love Minga with sincerity.
Yu Mingjia also slowly accepted Hu Jun's straight man style, and no longer forced him to show a romance that made girls happy. She understands that Hu Jun is pampering her in his own way.
Hu Jun has always kept his promise not to let Yu Mingjia worry about housework, whether it is when she is busy with work or when the family needs her, he will hold her in his arms. Moreover, he will always emphasize, "Children are not all you have".
After more than ten years of baptism, Hu Jun's appearance has not changed much, but Yu Mingjia looks younger and more beautiful. This is all thanks to Hu Jun's careful care and true love over the years.
Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun understood and tolerated each other, and gradually ran into a tacit understanding. In ordinary days, they compose their own love songs in their own way.
The story of Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun tells us a lot.
First, true love does not need to be expressed in flowery words, and the silent companionship in ordinary life is the longest romance. Although Hu Jun doesn't know much about romance, he is always by Mingjia's side, which is her most solid backing.
Second, understanding and support are the cornerstones of marriage. Hu Jun respected Yu Mingjia's desire to pursue his career, and Yu Mingjia also accepted Hu Jun's straight personality. After going through the run-in, they found a way to get along with each other.
Third, a successful marriage requires mutual commitment and understanding. Yu Mingjia sacrificed his career and Hu Jun left Shanghai, which required great courage and sacrifice. But mutual understanding and support between the two sides is the key to maintaining a lasting relationship.
We are all looking for our other half, and when love comes, we need to give and tolerate to usher in the spring blossoms. We should learn from Mingjia and Hu Jun, actively understand each other, and maintain a happy marriage together.
The story of Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun is like a touching family drama.
Their meeting may be a match between their mothers, but true love comes from the mutual attraction of two hearts. Hu Jun fell in love with Mingjia at first sight, and Yu Mingjia was also moved by his sincere love.
They are getting closer and closer in the continuous running-in, understanding each other deeply, and finally reaping happiness. Now, Yu Mingjia and Hu Jun have entered the stage of growing old together, and their children are around them, enjoying the sweetest fruits of love.
There is no fixed answer to love, the most important thing is to treat it with a sincere heart. Each of us is looking for someone who can fit with us, and when we really meet, don't be confused by each other's appearance, but to deeply feel each other's hearts and discover the beauty in them.
Understanding and inclusion are key to maintaining a lasting relationship, and romance can also be subtle. Although the road of life is long, as long as I have your company, I will not feel lonely.
I hope you can also live with your lover in a trivial life, and grow old together.