30 years old is a watershed moment in China.
If you are below 30, you will be called a young person, and when you are 30 years old, you will suddenly be old.
When you are 30 years old, the people around you will automatically treat you as an adult.
Requires you to buy a house and a car.
You are asked to marry and have children.
Ask about your work and achievements.
Heaven doesn't suddenly give you all this on the day you turn 30, so learn to be self-reliant before you turn 30.
We who are not mature enough seem to feel that one day, we will suddenly grow up, usher in earth-shaking changes, and move towards success. All troubles are gone with the wind, and all problems can be solved. A new world of complete light and happiness is ushered in.
But we live in the real world. With age. You will develop, no one can rely on it, there will be no earth-shaking changes tomorrow, tomorrow is just a continuation of today.
The hallmark of growing up is not to give any time a special meaning, to work hard every day, and to go up every year.
We no longer expect miracles to happen, and only believe in the skills and abilities that we really have.
Only if you are strong, no matter how old you are, you can confidently shoulder the responsibilities on your shoulders and bear the expectations of your family.
So you don't have to be so anxious, age is just a number, even if 30 has no car, no house, no wife and children, no savings, it doesn't mean anything.
What is your 30 years old?
What do you have that makes you financially free?